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The Juicebox Podcast is from the writer of the popular diabetes parenting blog Arden's Day and the award winning parenting memoir, 'Life Is Short, Laundry Is Eternal: Confessions of a Stay-At-Home Dad'. Hosted by Scott Benner, the show features intimate conversations of living and parenting with type I diabetes.

#1177 Ask Scott And Jenny: Chapter Nineteen

Scott Benner

Scott and Jenny Smith, CDE answer your diabetes questions.

•    What should I do if I miss my MDI basal dose?

•    What should I do if I inject the wrong insulin?

•    What should my kid be doing in the event of a school lockdown?

•    Of the latest advancements in diabetes ‘cures’, which one do you find the most intriguing?

•    Should people be on statins if their lipids numbers are ok?

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Scott Benner 0:00
Hello friends and welcome to episode 1177 of the Juicebox Podcast.

Today, Jenny and I will be answering listener questions in another episode of Ask Scott and Jenny. Nothing you hear on the Juicebox Podcast should be considered advice, medical or otherwise, always consult a physician before making any changes to your health care plan. When you place your first order for ag one with my link, you'll get five free travel packs and a free year supply of vitamin D. Drink ag one.com/juice box. If you have type one diabetes, where are the caregiver of a type one and a US resident? I'd love it if you would please go fill out the survey AT T one D exchange.org/juice. Box this survey helps move type one diabetes research forward. It's very simple for you to do. You'll know all the answers to the questions. It won't take you much time and you'll be helping T one D exchange.org/juice box. If you're looking for community around type one diabetes, check out the Juicebox Podcast private Facebook group Juicebox Podcast type one diabetes. Don't forget when you use my links you're supporting the show. So look right there in the show notes of your podcast player or at juicebox podcast.com and make the clicky. This episode of The Juicebox Podcast is sponsored by us med U S med.com/juice box or call 888721151 for us med is where my daughter gets her diabetes supplies from and you could to use the link or number to get your free benefit check and get started today with us met. Today's episode is sponsored by Medtronic diabetes, a company that's bringing together people who are redefining what it means to live with diabetes. Later in this episode, I'll be speaking with Mark, he was diagnosed with type one diabetes at 28. He's 47. Now he's going to tell you a little bit about his story. And then at the very end of the episode, you can hear my entire mini interview with Mark. To hear more stories from the Medtronic champion community or to share your own story. Visit Medtronic diabetes.com/juice box and check out the Medtronic champion hashtag on social media. This show is sponsored today by the glucagon that my daughter carries G voc hypo Penn. Find out more at G voc glucagon.com. Forward slash juicebox. Jenny and I have recorded an entire episode before we hit record. So we should there's part of me that thinks that one day I should just like wine Jenny up and want to let her talk. And then we should just record that. But

Jennifer Smith, CDE 2:55
we're back. Katherine caffeinated me,

Scott Benner 2:58
Danny, we are back to do an ask Scott and Jenny episode which we have not done in a hot minute. Let me see if I can tell you when the last one happened. But while I'm looking you consider this. What should I do if I miss my MDI Basal dose?

Jennifer Smith, CDE 3:19
Oh, that's a really good question. And I like that that's actually an injection question. We don't get a lot of No, we don't we don't get a lot of them. And I think that there are definitely a lot of people still doing MDI that have great questions. I wish more people would ask them. Yeah. But yeah, so I mean, it does depend. So you know, if you miss, let's say, you're taking your Basal insulin in the evening, you wake up in the morning, you're like, Oh, my goodness, I missed my Basal insulin, right? Me You could down dose your Basal insulin by taking some in the next morning when you wake up, right? Okay, if it's well beyond it, let's say you take your Basal insulin in the evening, and you realize at one o'clock in the afternoon that you missed your Basal insulin. And that's why blood sugars look strange, right? At that point, you are beyond taking that Basal dose, even a portion of it. And what you may end up needing to do is just manage with more rapid acting insulin, right, we're gonna need to cover correct, you may need to even increase a slight amount the amount of insulin that you give, or your carbohydrate or your mealtime coverage, because you're missing that baseline. So you could expect your rapid acting insulin doses to try to be making up for that missing background. You can even see this when you're when you're trying to do Basal testing. Yeah, and you're evaluating and you're seeing well, when I don't eat a meal, my basil causes my blood sugar to go up where it shouldn't. That is a basil deficit. But when you do eat a meal, it looks like everything is perfect. That means that your rapid is covering some of what the Basal should actually be covering.

Scott Benner 5:04
I have a couple of thoughts here in questions too. So there are older and newer infill Basal insulins too so like older like love Amir Lantis, newer like Joseba and what's the other one to

Jennifer Smith, CDE 5:17
jail basic lar. Okay.

Scott Benner 5:19
So they work on so that the knock on the older ones love Amir Atlantis are that they don't really last 24 hours sometimes so you'll even get he'll hear people splitting insulin so I can say that Arden us love Amir, but I'm out of okay, I'm out of the old ass basil game at this point. But if I missed Arden's love Amir at 8pm. And she woke up at 8am. And I was like, oh, hell, I missed it. That's too long at that point you think?

Jennifer Smith, CDE 5:50
Or something like and that's, that's great that you brought up the kinds of insulin for love Amir Yes, it's too long, essentially. Love Amir, for the most part who you those who used it found essentially that they did need to dose it twice a day. Yeah, we thought it was a you split it too. Yeah. So you know, have you missed it at 8pm by then you've missed the window of its most beneficial time period. So if you're going to dose again at 8am, go ahead and just dose with what you dose normally,

Scott Benner 6:17
and just start over like now we just do it at 8am. Now,

Jennifer Smith, CDE 6:21
well, if you just said you were dosing twice a day? Well, we wouldn't. That's why it was yeah, my

Scott Benner 6:25
scenario, I would, I would have just given her half at 8am. And then back again at half at 8pm. But for people who were doing it every 12 hours, or every 24 hours, excuse me, now they're 12 hours behind, and it probably didn't work up to the to the 24 hour mark to begin with. So, I mean, you could if it was live from your Lantus, you could just say, Oh, I guess we do our basil in the morning now and do it right like and start in the morning? Or would you have lows that day from that

Jennifer Smith, CDE 6:51
deal? With love Amir with love Amir, I think that that would have definitely been okay to navigate that way again, because for for most people who had been using it, it was definitely a 12 hour. So they took it and then they took it again, within 12 hour time periods, you miss one dose, you're kind of like over it, you just wait until the next 12 hour dose. If you were more of a Lantus user, though, which is definitely longer lasting, and most people got at least 20 hours of action out of their Lantis, or saw it start to sort of peter out by 18 to 20 hours, right? Yeah. So therein lies the question, you know, you miss it into the next morning, now you're 12 hours into missing your Basal insulin, you could take some how much you could take a quarter, you could take a third of what your total dose had kind of been a helping hand in a helping hand and then essentially take it again at the next you know, the next time period or downplay that a little bit to kind of just coast you through the overnight without being too low. Yeah.

Scott Benner 7:55
And then I guess, be careful for like that 36 hour period that you're not seeing. By the way, I'll point out that in episodes about splitting and so on, you very firmly came down on the side of not splitting Lantis

Jennifer Smith, CDE 8:07
for the most part. Yeah, I Lantis is it's definitely longer than a 12 hour action. So if you're going to split it, you really have to be kind of cautious. I've seen some people with tinier doses, do well potentially splitting it because they get the heavier dose in a time of day where they really need that background insulin for whatever the reason, and then maybe they just need a hint more to nudge them over into that. Let's say you can take it at breakfast and at dinnertime right? heavy dose in the morning, it covers behind the majority of the activity and the variables of the day. But the overnight, they need just a hint more of it in order to not run high overnight or to graze up before they take their morning dose. So you might see something like, you know, eight units in the morning and maybe a unit and a half in the afternoon or the evening time. Right. But that's not the typical for

Scott Benner 9:02
that. And to go to the more modern insolence, they actually seem to lap that 24 hour period, right. So

Jennifer Smith, CDE 9:09
ya know, yeah, and I think you're just gonna say essentially that if you take it and you missed your dose, you may have up to about 36 hours.

Scott Benner 9:19
You might get some coverage in there. Yeah, you might. Yeah, if you did that, say you Mr. CBOE and you waited the whole 24 hours to shoot it again and you just managed on the you know, with fast acting until you got back to your tear tear injection time. Do you think the next day would look a little resistant to or do you think you'd be back to good after you injected it? If you take insulin or sulfonylureas you are at risk for your blood sugar going too low. You need a safety net when it matters most. Be ready with G vo Capo pen. My daughter carries G voc hypo pen everywhere she goes because it's a ready to use rescue You pay for treating very low blood sugar and people with diabetes ages two and above that I trust. Low blood sugar emergencies can happen unexpectedly and they demand quick action. Luckily jeuveau Capo pen can be administered in two simple steps even by yourself in certain situations. Show those around you where you storage evoke hypo pen and how to use it. They need to know how to use Chivo Capo pen before an emergency situation happens. Learn more about why G vo Capo pen is in Ardens diabetes toolkit at G voc glucagon.com/juicebox. G voc shouldn't be used if you have a tumor in the gland on the top of your kidneys called a pheochromocytoma. Or if you have a tumor in your pancreas called an insulinoma. Visit G voc glucagon.com/risk. For safety information.

Jennifer Smith, CDE 10:52
You should be back to fairly good after you injected it assuming that the dose that you had been using before missing a dose was pretty good. Okay. Yeah.

Scott Benner 11:03
All right. So the first thing that came to your mind, it's a good conversation, but the first thing that came to your mind was manage it to your next injection time with fast acting insulin. Okay, so is there a one to one thing they're like if I like if I'm injecting? I don't know. 10 units of true SIBO? Is there an amount of fast acting every couple of hours that would like kind of keep me in the game? Not really

Jennifer Smith, CDE 11:30
not really we would what we would usually recommend is with mealtimes depending on where your blood sugar is, right? And possibly where it's trending again, the beautiful thing about having CGM now is you can actually tell how things have been being held without a piece, you know, behind that would normally be there. Okay? So if you're rising, coming even into a mealtime, you can think ahead and say, well, the rise means I'm probably missing at least half a unit of insulin, give or take person, you know, sensitivity versus resistance. And I've not even like eaten or Bolus for my meal time yet. I need to nudge this up minimally. And I'm going to be conservative about it because I'm not quite sure how much more I need behind this. Okay, right.

Scott Benner 12:13
What's your timeframe for I forgot my 6pm You know, Basal insulin injection, but it's only 730. Just throw it in then. Right? Absolutely. How far away from that six before you can just go hell and just do it. I mean, I know. Three, four hours, maybe I would

Jennifer Smith, CDE 12:30
say four hours, quite honestly, like if you're normally dosing 6pm. I mean, a lot of people take evening Basal insulin, it's like eight to 10pm. Typically, unless they've been told to take it with dinner or around dinnertime. It's usually like

Scott Benner 12:43
more why I think of it that way. Because it was because Arden was so small, it was part of the safety like oh, shoot it near a meal. Plus, you're giving her a needle than anyway. So it's not as that's kind of how we used to think about it.

Jennifer Smith, CDE 12:55
Yeah. Okay. But yeah, if you are normally dosing it at 6pm, and you remember at bedtime at 1030. Darren I missed, you know, go ahead and take it at that point. Absolutely. And then just back it up the next day,

Scott Benner 13:09
where your thought is that because if you forget it at 10, if you remember to you're not awake at 2am to remember it. So unless you wake up in a cold sweat and go oh my god. Right. Yeah. All right. That's okay. I appreciate that. And that was good. Yeah. Well, let's stick with this theme for a second in the inside of the theme a little bit. What should I do if I inject the wrong insulin? So I've seen

Jennifer Smith, CDE 13:32
this so many times. And you know what, it seems to be more of an err on the side of I was supposed to take Basal insulin. And I injected 30 units of rapid insulin, instead of taking my 30 units of Basal insulin. That's the one that I see. 99% of the time

Scott Benner 13:51
never goes the other way. I was making a two unit correction. And I use basil instead of my fast acting. Right, right. It's almost like you just said like this giant dose, even if you're a little kid, you don't you mean like, you know, three units of you know, is is a giant though. So in case this isn't clear to everybody, some of the most, I find interesting and heartfelt posts I've seen on Facebook, or somebody who jumps on and says, Hey, I just shot 20 units of Novolog instead of 20 units of Lantis. And I'm MDI and it's in and what do I do? And I always think what a great opportunity to understand how insulin works. I never say that out loud. Right? Because they're usually running in circles like a chicken without their head.

Jennifer Smith, CDE 14:41
You're not just like, hey, just sit watch what happened.

Scott Benner 14:46
wonder like, you know, like, so for my money. I do the math. I just say, you know, I shot 20 units of insulin. My insulin to carb ratio was one per this. That's how much food get to eat now, maybe add some fat, some ice cream, what a great time for a milkshake to, like, you know, that kind of stuff.

Jennifer Smith, CDE 15:06
Ya know, and that's it depends, you know, if you have a fairly aggressive insulin to carb ratio 20 units might not be a terrible amount, despite not necessarily wanting to add extra food. Yeah, 20 units might be something you can clearly take care of and navigate and manage that problem, right? If you however, usually take one or two units to cover a meal of 30 grams worth of carb, why units is a whopping dose

Scott Benner 15:34
your insulin glucagon time, then, yes,

Jennifer Smith, CDE 15:37
that's that's glucagon time. Or it may even be potentially that with enough sensitivity, you may end up actually just needing to go to the emergency department to be able to say, You know what, this is what I did. I definitely know that I'm going to need a glucose drip, I know that you're going to need to navigate this because I can't eat enough that I see often with kids, where they just their tummy is so little. They can only take so much juice. Sure.

Scott Benner 16:04
Yeah, there's there's no yeah. And yeah, I actually it wasn't making light of it. It's usually it's usually adults, but like, you know, that I see are like, ah, but I've actually managed one of these through, personally. So a girl, I don't remember her name anymore, came on the Facebook group and said, I just did this and she was in a panic. Yeah. And she's home by herself. She was in her early 20s. Right. And then the first comment that came to the Facebook group was call 911, which I think sent her spiraling. By the way that's, that's always like, you know, you always get one or two people are like, Oh, I know, you asked for what color is the sky, but I'm going to call it tell you to call 911 instead, and like, you know, like, so she starts panicking. I can see her panicking. And I just said, Give me your phone number. And I called her and I was like, Hey, what's up? And she was she was upset, or Yeah, I mean, she was panicked. And with good reason. What I did was I said, Alright, look, you know, what's your insulin to carb ratio? It's interesting that she went, I don't know. Oh, so I was like, you know, many people don't know stuff like that. They're like, I just usually do about this much for dinner and like, blah, blah, blah. So I said, Okay, I picked something that I knew how many carbs are in it. I was like, how much would you have Bolus for this? Yeah, that you really like firmly understood. And I said, Okay, so we're gonna put your like insulin to carb ratio at like, one unit for 15 carbs. And she's like, okay, and I said, Well, how many units did you shoot? And then she told me, and then we did the math. And I said, alright, well, you get to eat 125 carbs right now. Like, you know, and then I was like, let's but then she was like a healthy eater. So then that wasn't that easy. You don't I mean, I was like,

Jennifer Smith, CDE 17:40
I might get the honey nut cheerios out.

Scott Benner 17:43
That crap. And I'm like, Oh, God. Okay. So like, I was like, I might Hi, header, open the refrigerator. And we just went through it. Like, yeah, shelf by shelf, line by line, we open cabinets, we found enough stuff. At one point. I said, even if we don't find anything, don't worry. I was like, there's a five pound bag of sugar in the house somewhere, we'll start eating that, don't worry, we'll have it's gonna happen. We're gonna be okay. You know, I said, well mix sugar with water. There's all kinds of things we can because they didn't keep a lot of juice now, so she didn't have a lot of stuff. And she got through it. She was okay. Yeah. So

Jennifer Smith, CDE 18:13
in that instance, in terms of the portion that it might need to take somebody, again, with a stomach capacity to handle sometimes small, heavily packed carb types of foods are often a little bit better, you know, people think juice first, right? But it was also think despite being kind of panicked at that point, you have to say, well, am I like pretty stable right now or where is my blood sugar, you know, my sitting already at like 72. And if you are, okay, we need to get some quick something because it's a rapid acting insulin, and it is going to start working pretty quick, right? Whereas if you're sitting at 180, you've got a little bit of wiggle room there to navigate. And you may actually progress through rather than sitting down to the bowl of 125 grams of whatever it is gonna be, you

Scott Benner 19:02
know, that's not as clear thought to some people as you might think, because a lot of people see 180 and pick almond range. Like, you know, they don't think about the way you and I think about I'd be like, well, we've got 100 points to play with here. And yeah, also, the thing you said about juice, you can get you sick, really easy like that, like that nauseous feeling in your stomach, really, I can't do this anymore. And a big Bolus will burn through a fast acting carbs very quickly to like if you put in, you know, 10 units that aren't for anything and like you said, you've only ever put in two units for your biggest meal in your whole life. drinking juice isn't going to do crap it's going to be it's going to be like Jenny and I tried to stop like a NFL running back. We're gonna be like, Hey, don't don't do this. You know, that's gonna be the end of it. Right? Yeah. For two seconds. dense foods slowly digesting stuff. That's the kind of like, think about those foods that when you eat you always end up bolusing more for have a little of that at this point. Yeah. Oh my gosh. And then, but you said go to the moon. Wanna see room if you're, and I agree with that. But you can't just get in the car and drive to the emergency room. Because before you get there, it's me you in about 15 minutes. If you're lucky, I would imagine it

Jennifer Smith, CDE 20:10
right. If you are the one and you're alone, as this young woman that you are helping was clearly, that's probably not the best idea, especially considering she was very worried about what was going on. It's better to actually get to at least a stable enough place with enough carbs to be able to get to the potential of an emergency department to be able to help again, only as the last and kind of need. And, again, what's the goal between in there? It's glucagon. Yeah, we have glucagon that absolutely can be used in the case of need, you

Scott Benner 20:45
gotta have it with you. By the way, she did not have that either. She didn't have that she couldn't reach her parents. Like it was like a dumpster fire of like, bed, you know, variables for Oh, lo food in the house. Like the whole I don't know, I'll never forget, like, also never forget feeling panicked about it, because everybody was like, just do this. And I'm like, somebody's got to actually help her. Right? Like, you know what I mean? Like, she can't, she was panicking. And she was young. And she was by herself. And I was like, I'm gonna, like, just call me or I'll call you or whatever.

Jennifer Smith, CDE 21:12
And that's what she needed. Rather than reading and reading and reading the 50 comments that came in, I got worried about that. Yeah, you start to go down this and instead of doing your reading, start

Scott Benner 21:24
wondering which one of these is the right thing to do? Yeah, correct. Yeah, so just

Jennifer Smith, CDE 21:28
like one person to take into you need that verbal, that human connection, which is by the

Scott Benner 21:33
time we were done, she was eating bread, obviously, keep bread, that's good. Some bread? We're gonna I that's what I did I mix bread jam on their bread was sugar and peanut butter. And like, anything like that, like I kind of I kept hitting her like fast and slow digesting carbs at the same time. Anyway, honey is

Jennifer Smith, CDE 21:49
a pretty packed one to honey and maple syrup. From the standpoint of the content of car, I mean, a tablespoon of honey is like 17 grams of carb. And maple syrup is even heavier. Yeah,

Scott Benner 21:59
that's a consideration to like bulk of food. Like, I feel like this has been said, but it's worth saying, again, you can't just start with like, I'll eat grapes, like because you're gonna fill up before you get to the car number you don't I mean, like, you need some that's gonna hit you really? Like. And by the way, once you get through that, three hours after you've injected it, let's start over again. You know what I mean? So, right, yeah, just trying to stay alive at that point. diabetes comes with a lot of things to remember. So it's nice when someone takes something off of your plate. US med has done that for us. When it's time for art and supplies to be refreshed. We get an email rolls up in your inbox says hi Arden. This is your friendly reorder email from us med. You open up the email. It's a big button that says click here to reorder. And you're done. Finally, somebody taking away a responsibility instead of adding one. US med has done that for us. An email arrives, we click on a link and the next thing you know, your products are at the front door. That simple. Us med.com/juice box or call 888-721-1514 I never have to wonder if Arden has enough supplies. I click on one link. I open up a box. I put the stuff in the drawer. And we're done. US med carries everything from insulin pumps, and diabetes testing supplies to the latest CGM like the libre three and the Dexcom G seven. They accept Medicare nationwide, over 800 private insurers. And all you have to do to get started is called 8887 to 11514 or go to my link us med.com/juicebox. Using that number or my link helps to support the production of the Juicebox Podcast. Right now we're going to hear from a member of the Medtronic champion community. This episode of The Juicebox Podcast is sponsored by Medtronic diabetes. And this is

David 23:57
Mark. I use injections for about six months. And then my endocrinologist at a navy recommended a pump. How

Scott Benner 24:04
long had you been in the Navy? Eight years up to that point? I've interviewed a number of people who have been diagnosed during service and most of the time they're discharged. What happened to you?

David 24:13
I was medically discharged. Yeah, six months after my diagnosis.

Scott Benner 24:17
Was it your goal to stay in the Navy for your whole life? Your career was Yeah,

David 24:21
yeah. In fact, I think a few months before my diagnosis, my wife and I had that discussion about, you know, staying in for the long term. And, you know, we made the decision despite all the hardships and time away from home, that was what we loved

Scott Benner 24:34
the most. Was the Navy, like a lifetime goal of yours. lifetime goal.

David 24:39
I mean, as my earliest childhood memories were flying being a fighter pilot, how

Scott Benner 24:44
did your diagnosis impact your lifelong dream?

David 24:46
It was devastating. Everything I've done in life, everything I've worked up to up to that point was just taken away in an instant. I was not prepared for that at all. What does your support system look like? friends, your family care givers you know, for me to Medtronic champions community, you know all those resources that are out there to help guide the way but then to help keep abreast on you know, the new things that are coming down the pipe and to give you hope for eventually that we can find a cure. Stick

Scott Benner 25:12
around at the end of this episode to hear my entire conversation with Mark. And you can hear more stories from Medtronic champions and share your own story at Medtronic. diabetes.com/juicebox. Jenny, this one's interesting. I always have a weird feeling when I see people worried about this, but it happens all the time. So let's talk about it from a technical standpoint. Oh, okay. What should my what should I be doing? What should my kid be doing in the event of a school lockdown? My first thought is always what I told Arden was turn off all your alarms first. I was like, because you're gonna get upset, your budget is going to shoot up and we don't need a beacon going off over your head if there is actually a person wandering around your school with a gun. I mean, I guess that is part of it hot like you got to quiet your stuff. Your technology? Yeah, I

Jennifer Smith, CDE 26:03
I was actually going more from the what should you have on your person was

Scott Benner 26:07
thinking you'd go that way. So I went this way? Yeah, yeah, no, or the easy

Jennifer Smith, CDE 26:10
to grab bag, right? It's almost like the the T one D to go kind of bag that you have next to your, you know, garage door or in the back of your car or whatever. It's got packed with like everything. And I think at school for any age kid, especially maybe the the high school age, even middle school where they're probably more so taking care of themselves. They don't have a checkpoint really, right. And so they need to be ready to grab something and run and go wherever they're being told to kind of come together. Right? Yeah. But the alarms that's a that's a great one.

Scott Benner 26:46
I mean, so what we did for Arden was like you said in younger ages, they don't leave a room, usually they stay in a room, they do everything in the room. But once she started moving around room to room, we stocked every room with a few juice boxes, and some snacks fast acting, you know, sugar and something a little more substantial. Something that was you know, is all, like wrapped in a package wasn't gonna go bad the whole year, like that kind of thing. Right? We also started to notice, there were times of day she was low and times a day she wasn't. So we would ever more heavily stock some classrooms than other classrooms. But that's my first thought is, this isn't something you do in the event of this is something you do ahead of time. You know, my pain? Yeah. So I would have each classroom have some stuff in it. Now the the insulin part, I hear what people are saying, because I've watched them have these conversations online. What if this goes 12 hours? What if this goes two days? Like, you know, that kind of thing? I mean, I don't know how you're supposed to plan for that. You can't have insulin in every room? You know what I mean? Like, no, I am a big fan of the kids carrying their stuff on them, right? You know, your controller for your fear pumps, you know, glucagon should be with you not in the nurse's office, you should be in the nurse's office too. But with you, I think you will also start going into like survival mode. Yes. Maybe, you know, dial back your Basal a little bit. If you're on a pump, like, keep out of a low situation, you know, like nothing wrong with 150 blood sugar for 12 hours while you're sitting on the floor, if that's what's gonna happen. Correct. Do you have any other thoughts about that?

Jennifer Smith, CDE 28:19
No, I mean, it is it's a, it's a really, really good question. Honestly, I don't have any other thoughts, I guess, I would say to maybe in terms of what you're talking about, and how you had stocked your daughter's sort of school rooms accordingly. I wonder if also discussing with your school? Where is the place that in an emergency, you would bring the kids right? Or where does her grade go compared to the other grades? Evacuate the kids, if they evacuated them to a safe location or something like that? You need to know where to stack extra beyond the classrooms that she would normally be in she or he would normally be in?

Scott Benner 29:01
Yeah, this is not diabetes related. But I'm interested if you have you spoken to your boys about this, have you ever talked to him about something like this? They're pretty young, but

Jennifer Smith, CDE 29:09
they're pretty young, but they have their schools have done age appropriate education and about what it would mean, if there was somebody in the school that wasn't supposed to be there. That's kind of how it's addressed to be less scary, right. And they've done drills. I mean, that's the schools at least the ones that my boys have gone to, they've done drills, almost like a tornado drill or, you know, something like that to say, this is where we go, this is what we do. The all of those kinds of things are typically practiced Unfortunately, these days. I mean, the most that I had when I was little was like a tornado and a fire drill.

Scott Benner 29:48
Yeah, stop, drop and roll and sit on your desk so that they'll find your body under the desk. And I'll tell you what, I've told my kids now they've both been through high school already. And I will say The caveat is they mostly were in a school with one level. Okay. But the high school did have two levels. I very clearly told them, run to a window, jump out the window, zigzag to the tree line find your way home. That's pretty much what I told him. I was like, Do not sit around waiting for Mrs. What's her name over here to save you? Like she don't know what to do. Okay, she barely understands English. And she's teaching it get out of the room. I says, I swear to God, if you're on the first floor, up on the countertop window, open out the window, zigzag into the trees, get the hell out of there. Like I that's probably not the right thing to do. But I swear to God, that's what I told both of them. And I wasn't kidding. Like, one time they looked at me like really? I'm like, Yes, run away. Run. The hell, you don't have to be faster than everybody just the bare. joking matter. But Jenny? Seriously, like, that's what I told him. I was like, get the hell out of the building and run. So

Jennifer Smith, CDE 30:58
if you can, I mean, in certain circumstances where you're not quite sure where the trouble is coming from? Is it still outside the school? Is it in the school already? Can you hear noises? What I mean? It's it's just a completely unknown. Yeah, yeah. Right. So I don't even know if all schools have windows that open? Well, listen,

Scott Benner 31:18
if it doesn't throw a desk out the window, then follow along, after I'm doing like Get the hell out of you, you know, in, but back to the diabetes portion of it. You can't have insulin everywhere. No, you just can't. So if you have a pump one, I think my my best thought is you go back to very low settings, so that you don't go into you know, you don't waste your insulin, Oh, yeah. And don't go low. And just try to stretch it out as best you can. Yeah, and have food and have food wherever you are. That's my thought. I would even say, if you got into a dire situation, and you didn't have food, and the time really started going on, you know, your kids should probably know how to like Temp Basal off for a while, let their blood sugar rise a little bit, put it back on again, like I mean, it all depends on how much you want to like, talk to them about this stuff, honestly, you know,

Jennifer Smith, CDE 32:10
correct and what and at what age, I guess an age appropriate way. And depending, as you just said, on what they know about their system, do they know enough to be able to go in and these should be things you've practiced ahead of time ahead of a very emergent situation, you should have practiced how to suspend a pump, or how to set a temporary rate or how to take the algorithm off and go back to manual mode so that you can actually do some of these manual kinds of considerations. And some of them, you know, you might have an eight year old who's really awesome and can do all of these things, understandably. And you might not.

Scott Benner 32:46
I also want to say I just did a quick googling. This is a number from November of 2023. I hate to say this, but the odds of a child in the US being killed in a school shooting are one in 614 million. So I mean, it's sad for the people that happens to of course, and obviously but I mean, I think if you're planning on this one, you're you've run out of things to plan for. He's kind of my opinion. But anyway, let's find something more upbeat of the Oh, Jenny. Oh, we're talking I just realized we were saying just realized we're talking about diabetes. When I said that I looked down. I see the word gastroparesis. I see LDL and I'm like, what upbeat things are gonna be here. I'm gonna pick the one up b thing. Okay. Have the latest advancements in diabetes cures, which is in quotes? Which one? Jenny, do you find the most intriguing? Oh,

Jennifer Smith, CDE 33:42
I think the most intriguing for me are the insulins that are the smart insulin type. That's very intriguing to me. Years ago, I attended a I attended a technologies and scientific advancement, sort of presentation in which a gentleman presented on something that he was calling smart insulin. And it worked almost like a thermostat. It was injected once a day, it covered basil and Bolus insulin needs. And it turned on and off based on the glucose level in circulation. So it was it was something that in terms of, you know, navigating, you don't necessarily need even a pump at that point, right. So that type of science is very interesting to me, because outside of a true a true cure for solving the issue. Something like this would, it would definitely take care of a lot of the variables that most people are trying to navigate around. It's not the baseline understanding. That's so difficult. Yeah, it's the navigating all the little individual day to day things that could impact what you know about insulin action for you All right. So that one definitely. And then I think the other one, it's similar, it has to do with insulin, but it's more the encapsulated beta cells. You know, the the, the person who receives them actually doesn't have to have the immunosuppressive drugs that are most typical when you get a transplant. of sorts. Yeah. Right, in order for the body to not get rid of them and see them as foreign. And that's the encapsulation component of it, is to prevent the body from seeing it as foreign. Yeah. That also,

Scott Benner 35:32
so that one was on my list of like bear attacks is one of the, like, one of the companies, but actual, like, beta cells, like inside of a pack of bubble wrap. Yeah, that they put under your skin and your, your immune system can't see through the package to see that there's somebody else's cells in there. So they're working, but they can't get attacked. That one's been they've been at that one for a while. And I have had someone on this podcast, who was in a double blind study. Oh, so they did not know if they were actually having it or not. But she said that by the time they removed it, she was sure she was actually she had it in her insulin needs were pretty much gone. Wow. So yeah. And isn't that crazy, though? She was in a study. So it was working. And they took it out of her and

Jennifer Smith, CDE 36:19
they took it out? You're like, no, no, I'd say that's where I'm like, I find my own island somewhere, you know, where I live, she

Scott Benner 36:25
she was lovely. She's like, I love helping research, I was like, I would have run away, I would have been like, you aren't not taking this back. For me. I wouldn't give you my TiVo back. Definitely not getting this cloud DVR, you can't have that back. You're not getting back my back. So I was gonna say that one as well. And again, I think it's important, we talked about this stuff to say I first started hearing about this, like 15 years ago. So like, don't, you know, don't start saving your nickels up for it just yet. And that is going to be the next part of it is and you can see what GLP is right now. The people with the best insurance are the people who are hooked up or the people of cash are going to go first. And he is going to be for the first week and a half. So just you know, don't get too excited. I will throw in tz yield. Because yes, I've interviewed people from that company a number of times, and they've never said it. And now Sanofi owns it. So I'm not talking about you, Sanofi, I'm talking about the people I spoke to spoke to before who worked at prevention bio, I could always hear in their voice. This is what we're using it for now, to kind of like hold off the diagnosis. But we really wonder if there's not more to it than that. The IG so that to me, was really interesting. In that same vein, one of the prevention bio, Francisco Leone, he said to me, I would love there to be a vaccine for hand Foot Mouth. I was like, what? And he goes, well, so many people are diagnosed with type one after getting Coxsackie virus. I wish there was a Coxsackie vaccine. Because I think if we could slow down people from getting coxsackievirus maybe we could put off people getting type one diabetes, the percentage that we're going to be affected made me cry, because my kid had coxsackievirus when she was two, and then she got type one diabetes. So I'm a he's talk and I'm crying. I'm like, it was a good idea. You know?

Jennifer Smith, CDE 38:15
That must have been the one that was it was a while ago you to him because he came up with the idea of its application in autoimmune disease not specific to type one initially. Yeah, he was looking at something else if I remember correctly, right. Yeah.

Scott Benner 38:30
So if you want to pick through my brain that to me, like it's nice that somebody's trying to stop type one or something like that. I think that if you want to push mankind forward, you got to figure out why our bodies react oddly to things and figure out how to stop that. Yeah, that's absolutely the bigger problem. There's a gentleman on the show today. sarcoidosis, which is an autoimmune coisas. Yeah, had to have his colon removed. And the sarcoidosis is still going after him in different places in his body. You know,

Jennifer Smith, CDE 38:58
quedo, Asus is one of those that affects each person who has it differently.

Scott Benner 39:04
Ya know, it's it's a, it's a hell of an interview. I think it's like, it's in the 1100s. Maybe. But my point is that that's an autoimmune issue. Yeah. Whether you have hay fever, or you get hives, and you don't know why, or your body's attacking your thyroid, or your pancreas or anything, that's the thing. I mean, I think we should be dropping everything and looking at that, because that fixes everything else, you know what I mean? Among

Jennifer Smith, CDE 39:28
many other things, what should we be looking at? And what should we be doing in our world? Rather than looking for aliens in the outer space? Listen,

Scott Benner 39:36
if we don't get hit by a comment, I think 500,000 years ago from now, we're gonna have all the answers we need. So I'm hoping a actually, I mean, you know, let me be serious here because we're kind of coming up on the end here. Yes. I think if you want to hope for something, hope that AI can get to the point where it can run these tests and get smart enough to break them down because much like everything else in the world, what slowing us down is us. We're only so smart, we only, you know, we only work nine to five, you might have to live a whole generation of people to get an idea weeded out of education to get back to somebody focused again, like you want a computer running and re running and running and re running and go and hear, hear hear, like, I think, you know, if you know, that would go much quicker, I'll use as an example. I don't know how many people track stuff like this, in a Tesla in a car, they have self driving, a lot of cars have self driving now, but Tesla's is pretty far ahead of the rest of them. And one thing that that company did was they built their own supercomputer, just to look at the data from self driving to teach self driving, how to get better, to get better. That's what you need for health care. You know what I mean? You need something smarter than us running and rerunning ideas over and over again, I think that's actually the thing you should be hoping for. Yeah.

Jennifer Smith, CDE 40:59
And then maybe it's interesting, because I, if you had something like that, pointing out exactly what some of the things we know about health care and longevity, and overall body systems and how to keep yourself healthy. Maybe people would take it better from a computer algorithm instead, in terms of pointing out, Hey, if you do step one, step two, step three, and do this in your life. You don't have to take XY and Z pills, because you can already solve this without putting money out of your pocket. Right? So maybe they would take it better.

Scott Benner 41:36
Yeah. Also, if you thought that at the end of 60 days of taking vitamin D, you'd actually feel better. But that's not what happens. You take it one day, you don't feel any better. Right?

Jennifer Smith, CDE 41:46
Right? Historical data that maybe would be compiled by a system like this, you would read it and you would say, Oh, I understand. I

Scott Benner 41:53
have to do this for 60 days. Jenny, listen, I'm now months and months and months into a better health regimen. Because of the GLP medication. I'm actually absorbing my nutrients now in my in my my vitamins and everything. Before I think I was taking them they were just like, kind of flushing right through.

Jennifer Smith, CDE 42:10
You had expensive poop essentially,

Scott Benner 42:12
I am expensive, not half the workforce. But But that's very funny, but I am. I'm gonna tell you now, my energy is such that sometimes at night, I think I'm not even tired. Like the end of the day comes and I'm like, I can keep going. Like, I'm like, I go to bed. But I lay there. I'm like, What could I be doing? Yeah, I'm gonna close my eyes and go to sleep. But if I wanted to get up, I could do something for two, three more hours. I'm like, Okay, it's crazy. Like, I know that some of that's weight loss, but I actually think I'm taking in these, you know, this stuff now. All right, we have like, a couple of minutes left, is that right? Yes. This might end up being with a called tickle your with a feather? I don't know if you know that phrase or not? Because I think this is a bigger, bigger thing than we can tack on a couple of minutes. But I am very interested in this conversation. Should people be on statins? If their lipids are okay. Oh, we can't do it now. Right? Maybe the next test Scott and Jenny. I

Jennifer Smith, CDE 43:11
like to tickle with a feather. It's called tickle my

Scott Benner 43:15
eyes of the feather because then you think oh, the next time this asks any chumps on they'll talk about lipids and then I'll go back to it. Yeah, it's like, it's my, it's my own who shot Jr. Which nobody understands? Yeah,

Jennifer Smith, CDE 43:26
I feel like I can be very honest, in terms of what my perception from a medical like physiology standpoint is with that, I hold nothing to any company or whatever. And if you have a healthy lifestyle, and you have healthy intake, and you have healthy lipid numbers, and all of those types of things, you are not the population that a lipid or that a statin is going to be beneficial for you. In fact, there are multiple reasons that you probably shouldn't. Now, I know somebody is going to beat me up about this. I don't care, quite honestly. But these are, these are medications that are to begin with their band aids. They're meant to fix something that isn't quite right in your body. Many times it's lifestyle. Truly, right. And there's a whole there's a whole like host of navigating things. And if you really do your research, and you really look at where funding comes from, you will find the reason

Scott Benner 44:37
Are you saying that if I manufacture a statin and I get insurance that covers that and if you have diabetes, then what's the phrase I'm looking for? Everything looks like a nail if you all you have is a hammer. So, so the doctor goes I was told to give people a diabetes statins.

Jennifer Smith, CDE 44:56
Thank you for saying it. Sure. Go 100% Like, I am not 100%. Like I said, there,

Scott Benner 45:04
you might need them. There are people who need them to get correct. Yeah, there are

Jennifer Smith, CDE 45:08
people who may need them. But the bulk of people, the bulk of people who are being prescribed them, they don't need them. They don't need them. And there are a whole host of reasons around the world of people who have diabetes, that they are 100% prescribed, even to those. And a lot of people question they say, Well, I told my doctor, I'm healthy. All my numbers are in range. I've never taken this before. Why are you prescribing it? Oh, but it's preventative. Those

Scott Benner 45:38
are the people I'm talking about, then to tell you listen, but it's preventing me from one from in case, this happens one day, maybe? Yeah, no, it's I think it's preventing you from being able to afford a cup of coffee because you're buying the statins. Now, listen, I have long not answered this question. Because I'm not a doctor. And I have no idea. And I know it's gonna get confused, because there are some people who need statins. Okay. Right. But yes, I think that what happened was, is they became prescribed bubble and covered by insurance if you have diabetes, and so it becomes whisper down the lane. And before you know it, we're five years into it and a doctor's handouts that it's like, like candy, and they don't even know why it's just what we do for people with diabetes. You know, and

Jennifer Smith, CDE 46:21
a lot of them do. I mean, a lot of them know the baseline of what they've been told about prescribing it, it is called preventative medicine, right? I mean, the other one that very similarly, our blood pressure meds for people who come in who again, healthy lifestyle, healthy intake, all of their, you know, their lipid panel looks lovely. Their blood pressure is nowhere near needing treatment, and they're taking it anyway because they have diabetes, and they've been told to take it because it's preventative. Yeah, just let's

Scott Benner 46:50
say Jenny's not walking around with her man wearing a condom 24/7 They put it on when they need it. Oh my god be so uncomfortable. That's so funny. We'll talk more about that in the next one. And here's a little highlight for people in the next one. We're going to answer this one and the next one, too. Hey, Scott, I've listened to your episodes on GLP and your diaries about your weight loss. Well done. Congratulations. I know you said that you think that GRPs or meds like them will become much more frequently used for people with type one can you please go into more detail about why you think that? Oh, and then this one I'm hearing rumblings about them potentially causing gastroparesis. They cause gastroparesis on purpose. They slow down your digestion on purpose, which is called guest or gastroparesis, just not in the way you're thinking of it if you have type one. Okay, so we'll do that when going down

Jennifer Smith, CDE 47:38
digestion definitely is different. In terms of what's happening right then having actual gastro paralysis

Scott Benner 47:46
caused by type one as a side effect of type one diabetes. Oh, look at this. I've heard Jenny competing in an Iron Man. Oh, there's gonna be plenty of stuff next time. All right. Thank you

Jennifer Smith, CDE 47:55
to half so I want to clear that to half Ironman. They were not full Ironman.

Scott Benner 48:01
Oh my god that you're more worried about than getting yelled out about the statins. Like I don't need to hear from those Iron Man people Jesus.

Jennifer Smith, CDE 48:10
I think

Scott Benner 48:15
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David 50:34
use injections for about six months. And then my endocrinologist and a navy recommended a pump. How long had

Scott Benner 50:40
you been in the Navy? Eight years up to that point? I've interviewed a number of people who have been diagnosed during service and most of the time they're discharged. What happened to you?

David 50:50
I was medically discharged. Yeah, six months after my diagnosis. Was

Scott Benner 50:53
it your goal to stay in the Navy for your whole life? Your career? It was Yeah,

David 50:57
yeah. In fact, I think a few months before my diagnosis, my wife and I had that discussion about, you know, staying in for the long term. And, you know, we've made the decision despite all the hardships and time away from home, that was what we loved the

Scott Benner 51:10
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David 51:15
I mean, as my earliest childhood memories were flying, being a fighter pilot,

Scott Benner 51:20
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David 51:23
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#1176 After Dark: Broken Picker

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Marie is 37 and has a daughter with T1D. We'll discuss a physical altercation between Marie and her ex and much more.

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Scott Benner 0:00
Hello friends and welcome to episode 1176 of the Juicebox Podcast

Today's episode will be available without the curse words taken out for Apple podcast subscribers only. Today I'll be speaking with Marie who is the mother of a child with type one diabetes. And we're going to talk about her are we going to talk about today Oh geez. physical altercation with Maria and her ex that took place in front of their child. Oh, goodness. Okay, well, this isn't after dark. Please remember while you're listening that nothing you hear on the Juicebox Podcast should be considered advice, medical or otherwise, always consult a physician before making any changes to your health care plan. If you have type one diabetes, or you're the caregiver of someone with type one, please fill out the survey AT T one D exchange.org/juice. box when you complete the survey, you're helping to support type one diabetes research right there from your phone. Check out the Juicebox Podcast private Facebook group that now has 48,000 members in it Juicebox Podcast type one diabetes on Facebook. Don't forget ora.com/juicebox Get a free 14 day trial. Keep yourself safe online with aura au r a.com/juicebox.

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Marie 3:00
Hi, my name is Marie. And I have a daughter that is now six years old. Who has type

Scott Benner 3:05
one diabetes. How old was your daughter when she was diagnosed?

Marie 3:09
She had just turned three. Okay.

Scott Benner 3:13
Is there any other type one on your family side or on her father's family said?

Marie 3:19
Nope. None.

Scott Benner 3:22
How about other autoimmune issues?

Marie 3:26
Not that I know of I don't think so. Celiac

Scott Benner 3:29
thyroid, nothing like that. So nobody knew what they were doing how to get present.

Marie 3:38
It was kind of when my husband and I separated. She went to go stay with my mom. for like a week or two. I got everything settled. And my mom started noticing. Like she's drinking a lot. You know, she's paying a lot, stuff like that. And she had like a rash, which I later found out was because of like the sugar, you know, through her urine or whatever. So I'm like a little bit of a helicopter mom. So as soon as she got back, I called the pediatrician and I was like, This isn't right. Something's not right. She looks skinny. Like she's got circles under her eyes. i This is what she's doing. And they basically were like, how fast can you get here?

Scott Benner 4:19
Really? Well, yeah, that's good. Nobody. Yeah. Nobody pushed you off, like happens. Did she end up with a UTI from that or no, no, no,

Marie 4:28
I was very lucky. Like, she wasn't in DKA. She didn't have any kind of UTI or anything like that. It was a besides the emotional aspect. It was kind of a smooth, I guess. Diagnosis. Yeah.

Scott Benner 4:45
Medically, there wasn't a lot of extras. She wasn't even in DK look at you. Congratulations. That's a good catch.

Marie 4:50
Thank you.

Scott Benner 4:52
There's a thing you didn't think anybody would ever congratulate you on but that's, that's well done. Artem was on death's door when we figured it out. And so It was an it remains a thing that you I feel badly about like even, I mean God like 17 years later, like, how did we miss this for so long, like we knew something was wrong with her. And we were like paying attention to it and everything, we just never put it together. And when we intersected with doctors, you know, the right answers didn't come back. And so it just took longer. But you got that quick. Plus, you were super focused. Because you're also probably very, like, heightened, I would imagine at that point. Right? Yeah. Yeah. That's interesting. What made you want to come on the podcast?

Marie 5:35
I feel like, my story might be similar to some other people's story of, you know, separation, or not being able to really depend on the other person who's supposed to be helping you with half of at least 35% of what's going on, when you have a child that has type one diabetes.

Scott Benner 5:58
So how long were you married?

Marie 6:01
Six years?

Scott Benner 6:02
And did the separation sneak up on you? Or was it something you saw coming?

Marie 6:08
It was definitely coming, it was just not a healthy situation, there was like, you know, he has, he's an alcoholic. And so it was just a lot of buildup. And I just got to the point where there was like, a physical altercation in front of my daughter, and I just felt like, you have to start saving money, you have to get yourself out of this situation. And it just kind of once I felt secure, and being able to leave I just left.

Scott Benner 6:36
So you made a decision that you were going to leave because of that. Everything that led to it. But that kind of pushed you over the edge. And when you think to yourself, I have to save money. How long did it take to accomplish that?

Marie 6:49
So this was actually right before COVID. You know, so those, those six weeks of being stuck in that house was just every day, like, you gotta go, you gotta go, you know, and so it just took me from probably March. And then in mid September, I just called my mom, I was like, it's happening, I have an apartment, like, I don't want the kids to be in the middle of this. So I just, you know, will you help me out. And of course, my mom was completely on board, because she had been seeing a lot of those things like, you know, having to stay home all the time not being able to have people at my house because of fear of what would happen or how he would be or, you know, stuff like that.

Scott Benner 7:35
So seven months, it took you to collect yourself to get out. Yeah. And can you give me some context for how he would be what does that mean? Just

Marie 7:45
like, very aggressive, and, you know, does, he doesn't know what the point of stop, like, I'm, I'm drinking to enjoy myself, I'm drinking to, like, socialize with friends, or, you know, just in a setting or every so often, it was every single day, you know, and it would be like a soon he would start at work. And then he would come home from work, and he would stay up, you know, he would usually come home around 233 o'clock in the morning, just because of he works in a restaurant, he's a manager. And so it would be on home at three o'clock in the morning. And then I'm staying up until 738 o'clock in the morning, drinking, you know, where I'm like, You need to go to the room, I gotta get kids ready for school and like, you are not okay. And it was just like a daily thing.

Scott Benner 8:36
Did it start at a certain point? Or was it when you look back, it was the always drinking. So

Marie 8:42
I think that it just progressively got worse. And at the beginning, it wasn't really that bad. I didn't notice it. Until I was already like, a year down the line and the marriage and it just got increasingly worse and worse and worse and worse. You know?

Scott Benner 9:00
Are you separated from it long enough now to look at it and wonder, was it anxiety alcoholism, like stress? Like, do you like do you know what kind of facilitated it?

Marie 9:11
I think that he just is addicted to drinking, he's addicted to alcohol, and that's just his vice, you know, maybe like a little bit of escapism?

Scott Benner 9:24
Would you call your life like comfortable? Was it difficult, like taking the drinking out of it, like trying to just try to paint a picture, right? No,

Marie 9:34
I mean, he has a great job. You know, he works really hard. I will never take that away from him. He's a hard worker. He works in a very high stress environment. So maybe it was a little bit of stress. And there's a lot of pressure in that environment and from the people that he works for and things like that. But you know, he provided for us you know, it was never like we're struggling. We can't pay bills, you know, things like that. We had what we needed. It was not bad in that aspect of life. I don't

Scott Benner 10:06
know how to ask this next question, so I'm gonna probably get it wrong. But this episode is sponsored by Medtronic. diabetes, Medtronic diabetes.com/juice box. And now we're going to hear from Medtronic champion Jalen.

Speaker 1 10:19
I was going straight into high school. So it was a summer heading into high school was that particularly difficult, unimaginable, you know, I missed my entire summer. So I went, I was going to a brand new school, I was around a bunch of new people that I had not been going to school with. So it was hard trying to balance that while also explaining to people what type one diabetes was, my hometown did not have an endocrinologist. So I was traveling over an hour to the nearest endocrinologist for children. So you know, I outside of that I didn't have any type of support in my hometown.

Scott Benner 10:53
Did you try to explain to people or did you find it easier just to stay private?

Speaker 1 10:58
I honestly I just held back I didn't really like talking about it. It was just it felt like it was just an repeating record where I was saying things and people weren't understanding it. And I also was still in the process of learning it. So I just kept it to myself didn't really talk about it.

Scott Benner 11:12
Did you eventually find people in real life that you could confide in. I

Speaker 1 11:17
never really got the experience until after getting to college. And then once I graduated college, it's all I see. You know, you can easily search Medtronic champions, you see people that pop up and you're like, wow, look at all this content. And I think that's something that motivates me started embracing more. You know how I live with type one diabetes? To hear

Scott Benner 11:38
Jay Lin's entire conversation. stay till the very end. Medtronic diabetes.com/juice box to hear more stories from the Medtronic champion community. Fine. Did you feel loved aside of the drinking? Like? No, no. Okay. No. Got it. How many kids?

Marie 11:59
Altogether we have? Three, but they're only one is our kid together. Okay,

Scott Benner 12:07
so you have a baby with somebody else. You have a baby with him? He has a baby with somebody else. He has a baby with you. Yes, got it. Which ones? I'm just gonna say did you take all three? Are you couldn't do that? I imagine.

Marie 12:19
No, I just have my two your two

Scott Benner 12:23
natural children. Okay. So you weren't there? Like, mother?

Marie 12:29
Know her mom, his his other child's mom is? She's amazing. And she's, you know, she's a great mom.

Scott Benner 12:37
Gotcha. Did you guys work together in the restaurant? A

Marie 12:40
long time ago, probably like 12 years ago. That's and that was before he was a manager. That's how we met. Tell

Scott Benner 12:46
you what is it? This is kind of weird. But I this comes up a lot on the podcast, working in restaurants kind of a party, right. Like after work. I think

Marie 12:57
it really just depends. You know, I think a lot of times when you're in the restaurant industry, there is so much stress. And you're it's kind of like a people pleaser. You're trying to make other people happy, other people happy. And so a lot of people do go out to unwind after they get done working. And I think it's just a an acceptable thing. In that industry.

Scott Benner 13:21
Gotcha. Okay. Well, I'm sorry for all that. That's obviously terrible. Nobody deserves that to be their situation for sure. One last weird question. When you make the decision to leave, but it takes seven months to collect money and, and resources. I'm assuming that entire time you don't want him to know this is happening because of what you've mentioned. So are you just pretending? Do you have to keep intimacy going? Like what is that seven months? Like?

Marie 13:49
There was there hadn't been intimacy for a long time. Okay. All right. So it was not a pretending thing. And it was we barely saw each other. So it was kind of like strangers passing in the night kind of situation. And we didn't sleep in the same room and it was never, and we hadn't for three years since my daughter was born. So it was just a it was wasn't even about faking it or having to not let him know that something was happening. He was completely oblivious. Oh, because he was focused on work and drinking and that was his routine.

Scott Benner 14:26
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Marie 16:51
I think he really wanted a son. And I really noticed the difference when we found out that it was going to be a daughter. He was very he was disappointed right off the bat. You know, now he loves her more than anything, I'm sure. But he I just that's when I really noticed a change in our relationship and how he kind of interacted. Interesting and the family environment. Yeah.

Scott Benner 17:16
So the drinking was the entire time you were together? Or it was too Can I ask you like, I'm not? I hope this comes off. Right? I'm sure. Why'd you marry him? Because

Marie 17:29
it wasn't always that bad. You know, like, He's the funny guy. He's, he's got a big heart, you know, just not, not for me. And so like, he's the guy that everybody jokes around with, and he's, you know, very likable. But I also think that that is some of his narcissism and things like that, you know, he, it's not really fooling people. He's just not always like that, you know, the

Scott Benner 17:57
drinking was more, like socially acceptable. And then it just kind of got worse and been worse. And this is not something you did. I have to ask you did the other mom, did she try to tell you before you married him? No, no, no. Maybe that would have been nice. Maybe you guys can start a group and tell the next girl.

Marie 18:20
I would have been very appreciative if I would have known. But then I wouldn't have my daughter. And that would not be I wouldn't be sad.

Scott Benner 18:28
Yeah. Life's interesting, isn't it? Okay. Yeah. So, diabetes comes, I'm gonna guess you're on your own dealing with it. So

Marie 18:36
basically, we were in the hospital because it was like a Thursday. So we ended up being in the hospital until the following Tuesday. And not because there were like medical things going on, but simply just because the doctors were in in all weekend. And we couldn't be discharged until we sat down with the endocrinologist of the hospital to make sure that we knew everything and, you know, things like that were were good. But, you know, he wasn't there, he would show up for 30 minutes, an hour a day, and then leave. And so I was there by myself, you know, learning how to do everything, figuring out numbers, you know, learning how to Pre-Bolus and having those nights of just like, just being really sad. You know, I remember leaving the hospital to go pick up her prescriptions at Publix and just standing in line, bawling my eyes out because I couldn't fathom the life that she was going to have. And I was alone in it. You know, there wasn't a supporting character that was there to help me. And it was, you know, just trying to figure out how I'm gonna figure this out. In the long run,

Scott Benner 19:46
right, Marie, I make notes while I'm talking to people. And you know, the word I wrote down like 35 seconds ago.

Marie 19:53
No,

Scott Benner 19:54
I wrote down a loan. Because that's what struck me right away. Is that you're already three years into this knowledge that he's not really a partner, and you're not happy with your relationship for good reasons, your marriage is a mess. And now there's this next burden on you, that's totally going to be on you. Because you already saying it's not going to be him. And yeah, then you're worried about your daughter on top of all that. And that's, that's definitely a feeling of being alone and separated from happiness. Like, you know what I mean? Like, it feels like it feels like somebody comes along and cleaves away any chance to be happy and just like, moves it off to the side, like, that's not yours anymore. And that that's a you need a person to talk to, and that's time did you go to your mom,

Marie 20:45
I talked to my mom a lot. You know, my mom is a good support system for me, especially during that time. But, you know, she lives 700 miles away, you know, so, I'm in this town pretty much by myself, I don't have family here. And it's very much like, I don't have people that understand how my life is changing, you know. And so it was just like a combination of like, I'm finally free of this life that I had been living and the secrets that I have been keeping. And now, it was like a glimpse of freedom, you know, and I don't mean to put it that way. But it was because now you're chained to, you know, we were MDI for a long time. And so just shots and figuring that out. And for a three year old, you know, it's hard having to get shots, and yeah,

Scott Benner 21:39
no, I remember. Yep. Did you move there to be with him? Is that why you're far from your mom?

Marie 21:46
No, after I finished college, my mom lived here. And so I moved here to be closer to her, you know, I lived with her to kind of pay off student loans while I was working. And

Scott Benner 21:58
then she was like that. Then she bugged out and left. No,

Marie 22:01
she got married to this amazing guy who was in the military, and they were stationed in Germany for three years, they had just moved back. Right before she was diagnosed. And so but you know, then he was stationed in a different place. So, so

Scott Benner 22:20
she moves around a little bit. How old are you? How old? Are you?

Marie 22:25
37.

Scott Benner 22:26
Okay, your voice sounds younger. And so it was, it was making me look at you. You're like, Oh, now, you're very well, which it's? I asked. I mean, for everybody listening, but honestly, I asked for me, because now that you're 37 it's easier on me. I don't even know another way to put that. I have these conversations. I had one recently with a girl was like 26 and had a baby and she was dealing with postpartum and everything. And it was her age was breaking my heart as much as the story was. Yeah, so finding out your 37 alleviates some of my anxiety. So thank you for having me. She knows how to get into it. You know what I mean? Been through a couple of rodeos? Oh, yeah. No kidding. Hey, so when do you think you'll date again? 2094. Maybe because

Marie 23:18
I don't know. It's been a long time. And I am very much just enjoying living my life for my kids right now. You know, if

Scott Benner 23:28
I was you, I wouldn't even get a male cat. What do you think of that?

Marie 23:33
Like, oddly enough. Oddly enough, I've kept my daughter alive for three years with this. And so she's been begging me for a cat. And we just got a little baby kitten. So hopefully I can keep both of them alive. And

Scott Benner 23:44
again, I'm just saying I'd stay away from boys and their stuff until I I don't know, I'd vet a guy. Like, he'd feel like, oh my god, he feels like he was going into the CIA. If he was dating me again, if I was, you know. We've done background checks. We need blood every three days. Yeah.

Marie 24:03
There's an interview process. And Oh, for sure. No

Scott Benner 24:08
kidding. It's gonna take at least a year to get through this. Yeah. Can I ask you a weird question? When you're in college, and you're young, and you're imagining your life? Did you think something like this was your lot? Like, did you think you were going in this direction? Like, or is it? Does it completely blow your mind that this is your story?

Marie 24:27
Um, honestly, and I don't mean to sound like a Debbie Downer or whatever. I have gone through a lot of hardships from a young age. And so sometimes it almost seemed like I would never get out of that, you know, it was just like a cycle of, you know, bad decisions or, you know, losing my brother or you know, it just the hits like kept coming. And so, it almost seemed like I wasn't ever going to have that like Dream Life for that dream, family or anything like that. Okay,

Scott Benner 25:04
so it just does that sound doesn't sound weird at all because I mean, listen, I've spoken to a number of people at this point. It's either your, that's your path. And you're almost it's almost a self fulfilling prophecy. Or it just like a car accident comes out of nowhere. And it's like, I don't know, he was like, such a great guy. And he was the captain of the lacrosse team and blah, blah, blah. And then one day like, it goes, like one way or the other normally. So I'm sorry, what happened to your brother?

Marie 25:34
He passed away when he was 20 years old. I was 23.

Scott Benner 25:38
Oh, that's terrible. I'm so sorry. Yeah. Yeah, it was very hard. You have other siblings? No. Hard for your mom to imagine.

Marie 25:50
Immensely hard for my mom. Yes.

Scott Benner 25:53
Well, alright, my home was everybody take a breath for a second. Did anything good happening in the last three years? Like it's?

Marie 26:01
Um, yeah, I have two amazing kids. They're very smart. They're self sufficient. You know, I'm blessed with this as well. I won't have a third kid because the third is gonna be a bust for sure. Like, I have great, great kids.

Scott Benner 26:17
Got lucky in one spot. You just got to kind of hold on to that. Like, let's not stretch that out. I do understand that. Yeah, no kidding.

Marie 26:24
It's the best part. So good for you.

Scott Benner 26:26
Okay, so each said she did MDI in the beginning, obviously, how long did that go for?

Marie 26:31
I want to say it was the summer we're in 2023. So we did that for over a year, and three or four months, because maybe longer because we had only been on Omni pod for about six or seven months before we went to the five. So it was kind of, we did it for a long time. And that had a lot to do with like, you know, her dad didn't want her to be on a pump. And, and I think that was more like, it was just hard for him to figure out how to work it or to go to a class or you know, and that's part of his alcoholism and, and stuff like that. But yeah, we did it for a long time. Does

Scott Benner 27:14
she see him now?

Marie 27:17
No, she has not. He tried to drive with her drunk in a car. And we had a huge altercation. You know, and so he has a no contact order with her.

Scott Benner 27:33
Wow, that's something that alcohol is Yes. Really something else? Isn't it addiction in general. But it's very, very sad. Yeah. Because there's no way he's, there's no way anybody in there is in their right mind and thinking like this will be okay. You know, like, when you're making a decision like that you're not? I mean, you're not the you're not the one making the decisions anymore. In this case, the

Marie 27:57
I think the alcohol is that is the drive driving force for sure.

Scott Benner 28:00
Let me say this. I'm sorry. That's the case. And at the same time, I'm glad it happened. And she's okay. And you were able to like to kind of separate because something bad was gonna happen at some point. I mean, I don't think being like, blackout drunk, watching your six year old and having to give insulin is a recipe for longevity. So or success. Yeah, no, I think I think that was gonna go bad. Real quickly. So maybe it's nice that nice is probably the wrong word. But maybe it's good that something happened that allowed you to, to create that separation there, too. Yeah,

Marie 28:34
that's also sad for her at the same time, because she doesn't get to see her dad.

Scott Benner 28:38
No, I know. That's what I was thinking. Oh, geez. I don't know. I hopefully that's one hell of a cat you got there.

Marie 28:47
She's pretty cute. She's pretty cute.

Scott Benner 28:49
Cats got a lot to do.

Marie 28:52
Yeah. And honestly, I'm very blessed because I do have a great group of friends that have no qualms no fears about helping me with her learning everything that they can to support me or to support her, honestly, and take care of her. And so there's always a silver lining, and it's made me build a tremendously amazing community around me and my children. So

Scott Benner 29:21
yeah, listen, I don't know if this is valuable for you or not. You're pretty young still. But my mom, I just laugh because I said you're pretty young. So yeah, I feel well feel but you're still pretty young. And my mom had a hard life. My dad wasn't an alcoholic, but the rest of the story, you know, fits pretty well. And she just passed recently she was 81. And no, oh, thank you. And I can tell you that watching her fight through all of that stuff, was a gift for my brothers and I so you You'll see you keep doing the things you're doing and your daughter will wake up one day a fully fledged adult, look at your old somewhere and be like that lady was like a tough broad, get an amen. And and it'll help her. So it'll help her. It'll help her in her own life, and it'll help her with your memory when you're gone. And like all that other stuff. I know, I'm not I'm not killing you yet. But I know you got a couple more years,

Marie 30:24
but that'd be able to get her the 18 at least

Scott Benner 30:27
Yeah. I mean, she won't look up and just think like, oh, yeah, she did make croissants for us on Fridays. Like, she's gonna see somebody who, like, who fought through a lot of stuff to help her. It's gonna mean something to her, by the way, not right away. She's going to be terrible to you for a number of years.

Marie 30:43
I already know, I have prepared myself. I already know. On the other side, my mom told me that you get it back tenfold. So I'm like, Oh, great. Yeah, I,

Scott Benner 30:54
you know, I used to think that was something when I was younger, and I watched like women, like kind of snicker when their daughters had kids that were trouble, you know? And then, and now that I'm older, I'm like, Yeah, I can see what the satisfaction comes from that. Like, it's not because you want your kids to have trouble raising their kids, because you remember when they were giving you crap? So well, okay, so you moved off of MD, once, he didn't have a say anymore, you were able to go to even that, like, let's dig into that for a second. What's that like for you to want to make a decision for your daughter's health and to have a person who you know, should not have a say in it, other than you know, that he is a sperm donor, basically. And he's got opinions that are counter productive for her health, but you've got to be in that conversation. And he gets to say, like, talk about that a little bit. So

Marie 31:43
I basically made the decision on my own. And this was before, he wasn't allowed to see her. And so I took the class, I got her on it, we did our pod of, you know, sailing, and still doing shots. And I was like, you know, this is gonna get better, this is gonna get better for both of us, you know, and I remember taking her to her dad's house and dropping her off and sitting in the living room, and trying to explain to him, you know, this is how this works, this is all you need to do. And him losing his mind and being like, we're not doing this. I don't want to curse but like, we're not doing this. I'm not doing this. This is not what is the best thing for her, you know, I don't want to do this, and just her sitting there. And like it, it was sad for both of us, because we're both seeing this, a little bit of freedom, you know, a little bit of less stress and more consistency in numbers and her feeling better and a little bit more control with those numbers as well. And it was just one of those things that was like, well, listen, you can either get on board, or you can, you know, not see her, you know. And so we kind of did that for a while, but it wasn't very much longer before. That wasn't the case anymore.

Scott Benner 33:13
I'm imagining the two of you coming into the situations already tense you already No, this is not a thing that goes well talking to that probably. Yeah. And you have all this, like, these gains that you've made, right? You've you figured things out, and they're getting better. And now you're it's almost like you're going for permission from the last person on earth who should have a say in it. And, you know, and, and I don't mean like, I know, people can hear that and think but he's just father, he has a lot of sight. And I'm like, I get that. But I mean, if you're not listening to the circumstances, you know, yeah, he's the last person that should have some input. And, and then you it's just the feeding, and she's only little but she understands. Right. Yeah. She,

Marie 33:55
you know, when they're, and I'm sure that you had the same with art and like they kind of grow up a little faster than they really should have, you know, and they're around adult conversations with the doctor and talking about things and explaining things to her. You know, I'm, I've always been very, I don't sugarcoat things for either my kids, I just, I try to be as honest with them as I can. I don't lie to them about things. And so she always since this has happened has understood more than she should you know

Scott Benner 34:31
what alcoholism in his family?

Marie 34:33
I would say absolutely. Yeah. Okay. Yeah.

Scott Benner 34:37
Gotcha. Do you worry about it for your kids, or for your daughter?

Marie 34:41
I do, you know, but I also see my mom, who when I was younger, was an alcoholic. And after my brother passed away, it was really hard. But you know what, my mom is almost 15 years sober and it's the best gift that she ever gave to herself. Ultimately, it's the best gift that she ever gave to me to her grandkids, you know. And so, I think that it is possible. And I think that, you know, it scares me for them. But I grew up watching that. And now, you know, I don't like drinking all the time, I'm not wanting to just sit at my house and and drink when there's nobody there or anything like that, you know. So I think that it also helps you to see what you don't want to do. Right? Or you don't don't want to be like, Yeah,

Scott Benner 35:30
I don't drink, right. And I can't take credit for it, it just isn't a thing I do. It's not a decision I made or didn't make or anything like that. And there's this liquor store at this intersection where I used to live, and he'd get stopped at the red light. And it just felt like cars were streaming in and streaming out and it just never stopped. And as a person who doesn't drink you're like, I don't understand, like, what? Why could all these people like, what are they going to do with all this? Booze their body? Like, like, like beer stores as people constantly in and out cases of beer, and it just, it doesn't make any sense to me. And then to hear the story about your ex who it only makes sense to him. You know what I mean? Like that, that looks like the sun rising and setting to him. It looks perfect. And that's his

Marie 36:21
day, buy a 24 pack, drink the whole thing, and then leave to go get more, you know, and the same night. And so it's Yeah, that's exactly what it was.

Scott Benner 36:31
Does it feel like, even though I don't imagine this is what it is, like, I'm trying to take both sides here in my head. Like, what if i What if I was an alcoholic? I don't think I would think this but from your perspective, this it feels like he chose 24 cans of beer over loving you and and his daughter? Yes.

Marie 36:50
Yeah. Right. I mean, being an active member of a family, you know, going to school functions, even with his daughter, you know, I was the one you know, waking up and going to school and helping out, you know, and he couldn't, he would sometimes go. But you could tell like he was either really hungover, or he was not really there. You know, like, I'm ready to go. You know, it's like,

Scott Benner 37:15
uh, you know, expectations. This might seem like it's off the path for a second. But I think we, we kind of can do our children a disservice by presenting to them that life is going to be like some perfection wrapped in a bow. And when you really get into life, like I just did an interview with Arden, I did my third interview with her the other day, and it's not out yet. But we were sitting here talking and, and she said something like, life's boring. And I was like, what? And she goes, yeah, she's like, can you just do the same thing over and over again? And I was like, right, and she wasn't saying it, like, what was me, you know, when to throw myself off a bridge. Like she was just like, she's like, you know, it's, it's not running to softball all the time and 15 friends around you and every time you look up, you're at a movie or having a party or something like that, like it's, it's going to school and and washing your clothes and making dinner again and again and again. And she's like, it's boring. And and I thought, I'm glad she knows that. Because if you're expecting everything to feel like mainlining heroin all the time, then when it isn't. You can say well, what's the point? Yeah, the point is going to the school function or hanging out with your kids or, you know, leaning on you and watching something stupid on television after a long day or something like that, like that. That's the point. The points like human connection. And if you don't see that, then it could seem I can see how life would seem just stark. And yeah, and you'd want to alter yourself. Because your constant. If you're not taking joy out of what life really is, then existing in It must be painful. I'm getting I'm thinking. My son said he's been away for nine months. Now. I months. He got a job at Christmas last year. But he had to basically move across the country to take this job. The experience was he needed that. And it was really good. So we had to do it. But he moved to a city where he doesn't like he knew one person and she moved like two weeks after he got there. And so he he moved to a place where he didn't know anybody. They moved him up in the company enough that his schedule changed from all the people he came in with. So all the new hires had the same schedule, but they kind of gave him a different job. And so now even the people he sort of knew a little from being hired at the same time with them. He was not on the same schedule with them anymore. Yeah. And he's only got to work there for a year so He's almost done. But he said to me the other day, it He called me and we're FaceTiming. And he goes, what do people do after work? It felt like a four year old asking me a question. Like, he's like, I don't understand, like, what is life? Like is what it felt like he was saying to me, and because and the reason he can't figure it out right now, it's because he's disconnected from people. So he's doing a task, he's coming home. Now, to his credit, he's gone out and found people like in public to play basketball with and you know, he's taking care of himself, and like he's doing the right things. But I don't know that moment. Murray, where he just said, like, what do people do after work? I was like, I felt like saying, I'll be right there. I'll just live with you until you're done with a job. And then we can come home. Like, you know what I mean? Like, I'm like, I'm on my way. I'll quit my job. I'll be right there. But it's also really good for him. But it's only good for him because he's handling it. Well. Yeah. Because he could be saying, what do people do after work? And then seeing if he can get through a 24 pack? Yeah, yeah. And you can't take credit for being either person. Like, it's, it's just, it's just who you are, I guess, and how you would react to that situation? No matter what. It's sucks. Yeah.

Marie 41:15
It's almost like you have to be stimulated in some way. Or, you know, have that like, not high. But you know, that thing that picks you up? Yeah,

Scott Benner 41:25
no, point, all the things that people do to busy themselves. Smoking, food, drinking. You know, even even when you see people go like the other way, they're like, I'm going to exercise. But we all know, like, there's everyone lives in a town where some like, incredibly skinny person is running. 24/7 Like that's just a person who I think really wants to drink but doesn't like alcohol. Like you don't mean like they're they're looking for. I'm not saying you can't go jogging. I'm saying that, like anything you do to access is a to me a sign of you trying to distract yourself, you know, in one way or another

Marie 42:02
trying to feel fill the void of of something. Yeah. The only

Scott Benner 42:06
thing that feels the void, in my opinion is like human connection. So yeah, that's all anyway, I can see that. Yeah. Okay, sorry. We should talk about diabetes for a second. No, you're fine. Why? No, I'm fine. But like people listening might be like, this is the diabetes podcast I listened to. So she went to Omnipod. Dash. Is that right? And how long did you dash before you went to five? Because I heard you say five in there.

Marie 42:35
We went to five. I think it came out. October of last year or August, maybe?

Scott Benner 42:42
Maybe you want to say August? September? You right in there. Yeah.

Marie 42:47
So we were on dash from about February of last year until August of last year.

Scott Benner 42:55
Okay. So you switch to pumping. But as soon as Omnipod. Five was available, you moved to that? So she's using a Dexcom G six right now as well. Okay, how do you like the algorithm?

Marie 43:06
Well, honestly, I'll be brutally honest. Yeah. When we first started, I loved it. Because I felt like it was tighter, you know, it was had a little bit more control is a little bit more aggressive, which is I, I'm a I'm a watcher. I'm like watching these numbers, I'm trying to figure out how we can get this lower, or, you know what I did wrong this time. So I don't do it wrong the next time. And so I felt for the first three months, it was great. It was awesome. But then it was like, at a certain point, it started like letting up little by little, little by little. But she also started school. So it was kind of like, days at home with me would be tighter. And then when she was at school, it's also learning those things, too. And they're little, a lot actually more lenient, and like, letting things go and I'm calling the nurse. Like, we got to do something about this. And, you know, that's a whole nother episode and in itself, but so I liked it at first, and I found myself being the crazy person that resets it, because I, it starts to get too loose for me. Yeah, so we've reset a few times. And it's always great when it first resets. And I think it's because it's going on those base numbers, which are a little more aggressive. And then it starts letting, letting letting up letting up. So it's, yeah, it's kind of an in between. It's

Scott Benner 44:33
tough, because I mean, the algorithms in general, first of all, I mean, what's already one see,

Marie 44:39
the last appointment we had, it was a six, six. That's

Scott Benner 44:43
pretty great. Does she have lows very frequently. So

Marie 44:46
I think that visit, we were at a 1% low, which was good. And I was very happy with

Scott Benner 44:52
that. Yeah. I mean, it's tough because, I mean, we talked about Omnipod five because you're using it But I don't think it matters which one you're using. They all work within, within reason. They they work similarly. And you see, you know, it's sometimes some meal spike, and they don't do as good a job as bringing them back as you would like. And they're not perfect, but they're amazing. You know what I mean? Like, it's it's really interesting. I've, for me, it's about sleep. Like, are you sleeping safely and feeling comfortable while you're sleeping? Because that's a big deal. You're only three years into it, but trust me 10 years from now, if you're not sleep, yeah, that first

Marie 45:34
couple of nights. I'm like, Oh, my gosh, I slept like through the night. What is this? Like? This is amazing. Yes, it's magic. It was. And I like saw myself being so refreshed. And everyone's like, you're in a great mood. I'm like, I slept.

Scott Benner 45:50
Great mood. My brain is working at over 40%. You don't know, normally when you're talking to me, I'm shutting off.

Marie 46:00
Oh, I'm asleep walking with my eyes open like, it's, it's not. But if I could make that number 110 Lower, like that target range or that target? That goal right there? I think it would be a lot better. That is a little. I think that gives like a little bit too much leniency for me you want it?

Scott Benner 46:21
Yeah, yeah. So you'd like to see it. So you know, I was talking to somebody two days ago, who's on control IQ. And, you know, they were talking about how how much they love control IQ and how well it works, etc. And then I said, What's your agency around like six to six, three? And she goes, No, it's five, something and I said, How are you doing that she was I have all the settings made very aggressive. And I was like, Oh, okay. And I thought, Oh, she found a way to work within what the system was willing to do. And I don't know if that's like for, like with Omnipod. Five, like, I would say if you see a spike in a meal, like I would Bolus again, you know what I mean? Like, yeah, you kind of need to keep showing that thing. Like, this is what our total daily insulin is not what I want. Yeah, yeah. And so should be. It's just, it's, I don't know, it's one of those strange things. I'm not telling you that the the algorithms all shouldn't have lower targets, and be tuned to doing that. I wish they would. I've said a million times. I don't know why you can't just say, you know, listen, I want to use the beginner, intermediate or pro level, like, you know, just flip a switch in there and say, Look now, like, let's target 90 And, and be more aggressive, or I want to target 110. Like, do that or higher or lower whatever. Yeah, but I mean, I would

Marie 47:45
do 80. That would be my 85. Somewhere in there. That would be fine with me. That's your goal?

Scott Benner 47:50
Yeah. Well, I mean, I don't know if we'll ever get to that or not like any. They won't. Yeah, the retail systems if it will do that or not? Yes. Still, though.

Marie 47:59
And their doctor doctor is very, like, she's the doctor that she's a great doctor, don't get me wrong. They're amazing. I love their office, but they're like, you know, you're at 110. At this time, I think you should go up to 130. And I'll change it while I'm in the office. And then I'll go home and change it back. Hire, you want to hire especially at night, and she's like, my, your daughter is so young. That like 110 is is is cutting it close. I don't know. What are you talking about? Lady? I'm good with that. Why does she think that? I don't know. But she's also like, if your daughter's 250 At night, don't stay up correcting that, you know, you need to get some sleep don't stay up correcting that. I can see where you're correcting that over and over again. And I'm like, I'm not hanging out at 250. Yeah, she's not for me. Yeah. And she's like, Yeah, but if you're not sleeping and you're not resting, then you're not good for her. And I was like, I don't care about me. I care about her when she's 24 years old. You know, looking back and being like, my mom didn't take care of me the way that she should have. She did not do everything she could you know, so I still stay up and do it. And every time we go to the doctor, it's like, let's raise these numbers. Let's let's make this like, this is a little borderline and I just go home and change it back

Scott Benner 49:16
where you don't look crazy in the the appointment, right? She doesn't think she's saving your life or something like your hair is not going in six directions and you're like, hey, everything's fine. Nothing like that.

Marie 49:24
No, no, nothing like that. They just know who I am. I'm gonna sit there and make sure that you know, yeah, I'm like one one ad diagonal arrow. I'm like, nope, let's do it. Let's

Scott Benner 49:34
talk too much. Is your doctor married?

Marie 49:37
I don't know. She is a little. She's an older lady. And she's, I don't exactly know where she's from. I think she might be German.

Scott Benner 49:46
How old? Is she in our 60s?

Marie 49:48
I would say

Scott Benner 49:49
yeah, you might need a younger doctor. There are

Marie 49:54
no younger doctors in this town. I see. Honestly, I spend more time with The educational nurse, I love her. But even she sometimes is like, listen, you're getting a little low at nighttime, like she's going to bed when she's 80. And that's not okay. You need to like, raise that nighttime. Why is

Scott Benner 50:12
that? Not okay? Is she getting lower than 80?

Marie 50:16
She Yeah, but I'm okay. As long as she's not under 70. You know what I mean? Like, I'm fine with that. It doesn't bother me. You're telling

Scott Benner 50:23
me that you're keeping her blood sugar between 70 and 80 when she's sleeping and the dot, and it's not going lower than that. And the doctor wants you to change that. Yeah,

Marie 50:32
like, I think last night, she got to 93. And then she came right back down and glided on, you know. And so, if we had a doctor's appointment this morning, it probably would have been like, that's not like, I'm not comfortable with that. And you shouldn't be comfortable with that. Because if something happens, you know,

Scott Benner 50:49
those people don't know what they're talking about.

Marie 50:52
It's a little stressful, because I'm always I'm trying to fix it. I'm the fixer. And they're like, You need to let out the reins a little bit.

Scott Benner 51:00
Its stability is what your goal is. If you're stable at 80, then what's the point? Like? Why? Why would we prefer to be stable at 110? I wouldn't. Yeah, they're mixing apples and oranges. Like, I don't want you falling, like below a number and getting low. Like, I'm not saying that. But there's no reason to believe that an ad is going to fall. If your settings are good. They don't know what they're saying. It's interesting. Yeah. Okay. Well, it sounds like you're doing fine. I would just crying.

Marie 51:28
I mean, I got breakfast down to a science. So I felt like if I've mastered cereal and oatmeal and pancakes, then

Scott Benner 51:37
you're probably Yeah, just you know, this penguins from that Madagascar movie, like this smile and wave just smiling life, just like I heard you. Thanks. Just can I get all the prescriptions,

Marie 51:47
change it, and I go back, I go home, and I change it back.

Scott Benner 51:51
Thank you. Appreciate it. I just need the There we go. Thank you. I go, I got my prescriptions. I'm out of here. Well, listen, I'm sure they just don't want a crazy low to happen. But I mean, how many times do you have to show them stability and an ad? Before they go? This lady seems to know how to accomplish this. You don't I mean? Yeah.

Marie 52:12
You know, it was really interesting, because there was a point there where I was going in and they're like, Well, how do you do this? Like when she's having pasta? Like, because we eat pasta? We rice? Like, I'm from Miami, like we eat rice in this house. And so she's like, Well, how do you not have that spike? And I'm like, well, first of all, I cook it and then I pull it off. And I microwave it, which breaks it down a little bit. But I also I'm like really aggressive on that dose. And I'll give her a little bit before she starts eating. And then I'll give her more after because I already know what's gonna happen, you know? And so they're like, you microwave,

Scott Benner 52:50
what you don't understand, like, instead of telling you what they think, why aren't they asking you what you think? Because you're the one that appears to know how to do it.

Marie 52:57
Yeah, well, they did. They're like, why do you microwave it? And I'm like, it just it breaks it down a little bit and makes it not have such a hard hit, you know? And they're like, and I'm like, I do the same thing for pasta. You know, I cook it I call it off. I put it in the microwave. And for some reason, you know, we just don't have that. Oh, it's not.

Scott Benner 53:15
There's no real scientific reason why that works. Yeah. Did you hear Jessie's episode where she talked about that? Yeah, yeah. Glucose goddess, right? Like, yeah, you can I think potatoes. A lot of different starches, like cook them, cool them reheat them. They don't hit you the same way.

Marie 53:32
Yep. Which is great. Yeah.

Scott Benner 53:35
Like, you should say, like, you know what, I heard it on a podcast. How was it? You don't know about it? Like, come on. Well,

Marie 53:44
after when we were in the hospital, we had this incredible nurse and her name was Alex and I will welcome Leila use her name because she was incredible. And she just sat me down one night. And she's like, Listen, this is the podcast that you need to listen to. This is going to save your life and your daughter's life. This is going to help you. And you know, she started telling me tricks. And you know, if she wants to treat before bedtime, give her some sugar free strawberry ice cream with peanut butter. And like, this is how this is going to affect this, you know, and she just was so amazing. But she pointed me straight in the direction of the podcast. And so our first doctor's appointment, I was like, yeah, like I've been listening to this podcast, and they're like, What? Like, you have to listen to it. Like what are you talking about? You've got to so it's like a revelation

Scott Benner 54:31
of she's listening. I really appreciate that. That's wonderful.

Marie 54:36
Revelation is like one so she knew what she was talking about. Gotcha.

Scott Benner 54:40
Hey, can I get a t shirt that says the revelation on it because I think that would be very funny and appropriate. And

Marie 54:47
I think I think you've earned it.

Scott Benner 54:50
I mean, as soon as I leave this room, good Tom, my wife and I would like her to refer to me as the revelation from now on.

Marie 54:58
You might get a funny look, but go

Scott Benner 55:00
I'm not gonna you know, funny like she did tell me to go by oh my gosh, she's gonna say, did someone on that podcast say that to you? Because they don't know you? You're an idiot. And I'm like, Okay, I gotcha.

Marie 55:15
No, of course not. Yeah, by

Scott Benner 55:18
the way, this is an after dark episode, I think because of all the drinking. I think I'm going to call it after dark revelation.

Marie 55:23
Hey, I'm good with that. Are you? Good? Hilarious.

Scott Benner 55:28
Oh, my gosh. Are you okay? Yeah, I'm fine. You're fine. I

Marie 55:35
have moments of stress. But you know, I tried to just roll with it. Yeah. Because it's, I'm doing it on my own. So there's no other option, but

Scott Benner 55:46
I'm good. Yeah, that was not convinced, at all. Everything's fine. Thank you for asking. It felt like a movie where you're on a bridge and I come up and I'm the cop and I get out of my patrol car. You go you Okay? And you go, Yeah, I'm fine. Absolutely fine. Everything's okay. You can go about

Marie 56:07
your business. Right? Just leave me here.

Scott Benner 56:11
I don't I almost got it all worked out. But like, do you take time to take care of yourself?

Marie 56:16
My mom would say no, I go to the gym Monday through Friday. And that hour of time, hour and a half is is my time. And I feel like that is where I really work out a lot of stressors or things that are getting to me or you know, that's that's the time that I would rather spend on myself because it just clears my mind running. I just takes me to this peace level of a little bit of serenity. And like, in that moment, so that's how I take care of myself.

Scott Benner 56:49
Oh, that's excellent. By the way, be careful some of those gym boys. Like you don't I mean, like,

Marie 56:54
oh, no, I am the only weirdo in Florida right now wearing a hoodie and like sweatpants and that's that's how they don't talk to me. Cuz I'm not I'm not the cute dress girl with the makeup on.

Scott Benner 57:06
Good. Let's keep the gym boys away from you. That's right. We don't need that. I feel like you have a poor track record and you will definitely find one who's jacked up on testosterone and something else.

Marie 57:18
It is a known joke. My pickers broken like I faulty, completely faulty picker. So there's a memory.

Scott Benner 57:26
We can't We can't call it revelations. Now. It's broken picker. God damn it. You ruined my title. It's okay. I'm actually writing it down in case you're wondering, broken picker is hilarious. That's your title. They're done. Plus, I realized the violations is a Bible like thing. And maybe people would not think that's funny. You have a broken picker?

Marie 57:53
Yes, I'm not. I'm not good at that.

Scott Benner 57:55
How do we fix your picker? Just

Marie 57:57
stay single by myself. Is

Scott Benner 58:01
that why don't why don't you just play worked out with? It's worked out? Well, I've stayed away from guys and nothing's gone wrong. Why don't you go out into the world? Pick a guy and then pick one you would never go with and then ask the one you would never go without. That's probably how you should do it.

Marie 58:18
It seems like a great idea. But you know, that will just be a mess. And something always happens. Yes. There'll be a serial murderer or something. Yeah, like the Ted Bundy is that are completely normal all over the place and they're secretly killing people and stuffing them in your,

Scott Benner 58:35
your in the trunk. You're bound. And you're like that King Guy on that goddamn podcast. No, it try a quiet guy. Now he's getting ready to cut my arm off. So and eat it. So? Well. There's always I mean, I don't know. I don't know. It just it seems like I also think Look at me, I'm flustered now because I know when my wife leaves me, which has got to happen at some point. When that happens. I'm gonna be by myself for sure. Although my daughter's like you're my daughter goes, dude, you're such a catch. For some lady whose kid has diabetes. She's like, you'll be fine. Don't worry about it.

Marie 59:19
They're gonna be lining up. No heads try for somebody to help me with this. I don't have to stress on myself.

Scott Benner 59:26
That's all you want. I can do those things. Don't worry. Let's go. You're gonna get insulin. Oh, yeah, man. Don't worry. It's good. That's right. That's right. But no like, but I also think like, a guy called you young earlier, but at the same time, like it's no joke, right? When you find when people get into their late 30s The people leftover can sometimes feel like the ones that they just couldn't find a match or didn't like it feels weird, right? Doesn't it feel like you're? This is gonna sound wrong, but doesn't it feel like you're shopping like on the, like the leftover rack. It's

Marie 1:00:03
kind of like, these people are single for a reason. And it's not because they're, they're good. People are like that they're the catch. They're the ones who people have tried and been like, yeah, that's not that's a no go.

Scott Benner 1:00:19
Oh, hell is not where it's at. That's right. That's right. But you're also

Marie 1:00:25
I know. And you know why? It's because my picker is broken. And I've spent too many years with people that I shouldn't have been with. I feel like I might have been picked up a long time ago. But instead, I always wanted to be with the fun one and the crazy one, and

Scott Benner 1:00:42
this is a problem, there's a problem. That's the problem. When I was younger, my mom was like, you know, somebody's gonna love you. Like, you're so kind and blah, blah, blah. And I was like, that's not how girls pick. I don't think that's how this works. But okay, thanks, Mommy. That's right. And then we'll like talk privately. It's, and those you've heard guys say, like, just be mean, they like it better, which is obviously ridiculous. But also not like you will attract a certain person just being. And yeah, that sucks. But, you know, nobody's looking to nobody's like looking for me, Marie, who's like, I cut the lawn every week, you know, they mean? Like, are

Marie 1:01:23
you kidding me, that would be, I would be fine with that. I want somebody who's gonna be nice to me, and treat me good. And treat my kids good. And that's all I really care about right now. But I also feel like just being where I have been focusing on my kids focusing on, you know, making their life everything that it could be, I would never trade the last two years and for anything, because it's made me realize who I am. It's helped me to find out how to be the best mom for them. And really, just pour everything that I have into them and not into somebody else that will distract me. It's not worth it. That's

Scott Benner 1:02:02
excellent. I'm happy for you about that. For sure. I think you just gotta find another guy who also has a broken picker, and then you guys would probably be perfect together.

Marie 1:02:13
Maybe he exists, maybe. I mean, I

Scott Benner 1:02:15
gotta be honest with you. I don't see why we don't start a dating app right now called Broken picker. And it's just people with like, this story. Like, I always pick the wrong person. I always pick the wrong person. I never know which one to pick, and then let the algorithm put them together. I think it really would work. Yeah,

Marie 1:02:31
except for dating apps or the death of society. I feel like Yeah,

Scott Benner 1:02:35
but I mean, you're older. Now. You don't have time to go out and like, you know, they mean, pop up your caves or whatever girls do it. And like, it's a lot of work. It's like you're not going out and like foreign shields again, ever. Right?

Marie 1:02:49
Meet me on the soccer field, then we'll see what happens. That's how I see it.

Scott Benner 1:02:52
If you think I'm attractive while I'm screaming at a referee, you're gonna love me.

Marie 1:02:59
That is so true. Okay.

Scott Benner 1:03:02
That's hilarious. All right. Well, I really do appreciate you doing this with me. I'm wondering if there's anything we didn't cover that we should have?

Marie 1:03:08
I don't know. I feel like we've covered a lot. I

Scott Benner 1:03:12
took you all over the place. You did really good. That's fine. Yeah. Yeah, I can even feel it sometimes. When people are like, you ask such good questions. And I was like, I bet you people wish I asked two questions in a row that's felt like they went together. But, but I thought this was fascinating. Oh, yeah. And it really is. I think what you said in the beginning is very true. You are not nearly the only person by the way, man or woman like this could handle Yeah, yeah. For sure that this has happened to and you. I mean, I don't know if you're proud of yourself, but you took care of this quickly. I know that doesn't seem like that. Probably but you recognize the problem. tried to make it work. assessed, it is not fixable, and got the hell out? All within a few years. That's that's pretty cool. You know what I mean? Like that. That's, that's good work by you. So yeah, no, of course not. It's a I mean, you could have been there 20 years trying to, you know, coming up with excuses. And that kind of stuff. I shouldn't talk like this. My wife's gonna hear this and be like, yeah, why am I making excuses?

Marie 1:04:18
Or like, stay together for the kids stay together for the kids? Like, yeah, right. I don't want my kids to think that this is acceptable acceptable to treat somebody that way or acceptable to accept being treated that way you're such

Scott Benner 1:04:30
a harsh example to like your your situation is it's over the top you do you know that like, did you have like, like, now that you're away from it? Do you see that your life's not the same like adrenaline fueled, like crazy ride that it used to be? Did you not know it was back then? Or did you know?

Marie 1:04:48
I was in it. So I mean, I knew like, and it was like, Oh, it's 230 He'll be home soon. Like, this is this is not good. You know? So it was every day. And that's not Have a takeaway from you know, how hard he worked. And I know that he loves his kids, I just think that he has to find that balance of or say to himself, like, I am an alcoholic. And I cannot drink, you know, and I think his pride is too much to admit that or to change how he is,

Scott Benner 1:05:20
if he was able to do that, if he was able to get sober, Would you welcome him back as like her dad and everything.

Marie 1:05:27
I mean, he's still her dad, he'll always be her dad, you know, but, I mean, that would be my ideal. I want her to have a sober dad, you know, and he can be an amazing dad. And I know that, you know, and it's just, he's got to figure out like, which thing is more important to me. And I'll be honest with you, it's coming up in December, when he'll be able to see her again. And my anxiety is like, all over the place, because I don't know what that's gonna look like, because I've been in control of this situation, at that point will be a year and eight months, you know, so it's, I hope that he's getting it together and doing the things that he needs to do and that the court recommended that he does so that he can have a relationship with her. That

Scott Benner 1:06:14
would be ideal. Yeah, of course, do you not know if those things are happening or not? Do you have no contact? No,

Marie 1:06:19
he has no contact with me or, or her because of the situation that

Scott Benner 1:06:24
happened. So he knows he could be sober right now you wouldn't know it. I

Marie 1:06:30
wouldn't know it. I pray that He is, you know, I want that for my daughter urinate

Scott Benner 1:06:34
months. Now, suddenly, he's gonna be back again, and you're worried he's gonna be that same person, or worse. That's terrible. Well,

Marie 1:06:44
he's very resentful, and so I just know that it's gonna be a rocky situation, at least for a while.

Scott Benner 1:06:53
So yeah, that sucks. I I'm sorry. For you. I am, I hope. I hope it is the best outcome it can be. And if it's not, I hope you continue to handle it the way you've been because you're doing a great job.

Marie 1:07:05
Yeah, thank you.

Scott Benner 1:07:06
I appreciate that. Of course. It's sincere. I mean, I've only talked to you for an hour but you know, you're very together and, and thoughtful about this. Thank you. Yeah. Unless you're hiding something. Are you hiding anything? Tell me No. No. You imagine? I try not? You told me so many things about your life. You writing something like I don't know what it could be.

Marie 1:07:30
Maybe I'm a serial murderer. You've got people

Scott Benner 1:07:33
locked in the basement? Maybe? My gosh. Alright. Well, Maria, thank you so much. Can you hold on for a second for me? Absolutely. Thank

Marie 1:07:40
you. Thanks.

Scott Benner 1:07:47
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Speaker 1 1:09:34
My name is Jalen Mayfield. I am 29 years old. I live in Milwaukee, Wisconsin, where I am originally from Waynesboro, Mississippi. So I've kind of traveled all over. I've just landed here in the Midwest and haven't left since.

Scott Benner 1:09:49
How old were you when you were diagnosed with type one diabetes?

Speaker 1 1:09:52
I was 14 years old when I was diagnosed with type one diabetes

Scott Benner 1:09:56
15 years ago. Wow. Yes. Okay. 14 years old. Are you like, do you remember what grade you were in?

Speaker 1 1:10:01
I actually do because we we have like an eighth grade promotion. So I had just had a great promotion. So I was going straight into high school. So it was a summer, heading into high school

Scott Benner 1:10:11
was that particularly difficult going into high school with this new thing?

Speaker 1 1:10:14
I it was unimaginable, you know, I missed my entire summer. So I went, I was going to a brand new school with, you know, our community, we brought three different schools together. So I was around a bunch of new people that I had not been going to school with. So it was hard trying to balance that while also explaining to people what type one diabetes was,

Scott Benner 1:10:34
did you even know? Or were you just learning at the same time,

Speaker 1 1:10:37
I honestly was learning at the same time, my hometown did not have an endocrinologist. So I was traveling almost over an hour to the nearest you know, pediatrician, like endocrinologist for children. So you know, outside of that I didn't have any type of support in my hometown.

Scott Benner 1:10:55
Was there any expectation of diabetes? Is somebody else in your family have type one? No, I

Speaker 1 1:11:00
was the first one to have type one of my family. And do you have children? Now?

Scott Benner 1:11:04
I do not know. Do you think you will one day, still

Speaker 1 1:11:07
gonna validate. But right now, I've just been traveling books at all my career myself. So

Scott Benner 1:11:12
what do you do? What's your career? Yeah, so

Speaker 1 1:11:14
I am a marketing leasing specialist for a student housing company. So we oversee about 90 properties throughout the US. So I've been working for them for about

Scott Benner 1:11:22
eight years now. And you get to travel a lot in that job. Yes, I

Speaker 1 1:11:27
experience a lot of travel. It's fun, but also difficult, especially with all your type one diabetes supplies, and all your electronics. So it's a bit of a hassle sometimes.

Scott Benner 1:11:36
What do you find that you absolutely need with you while you're traveling? diabetes wise,

Speaker 1 1:11:41
I have learned my biggest thing I need is some type of glucose. I have experienced lows, whether that's on a flight traveling, walking through the airport, and I used to always experience just being nervous to ask for some type of snack or anything. So I just felt, I felt like I needed to always have something on me. And that has made it my travel a lot easier.

Scott Benner 1:12:02
So growing up in the small town. What was your initial challenge during diagnosis? And what other challenges did you find along the way?

Speaker 1 1:12:13
Yeah, I think the initial one, I felt isolated, I had no one to talk to that it was experiencing what I was going through, you know, they were people would say, Oh, I know, this is like hard for you. But I was like, you really don't like I, I just felt lonely. I didn't know you know, people were watching everything I did. He was like, You can't eat this, you can't eat that. I felt like all of my childhood had been you know, I don't even remember what it was like for life before diabetes at this point, because I felt like that's the only thing I could focus on was trying to do a life with type one diabetes, when

Scott Benner 1:12:47
you found yourself misunderstood? Did you try to explain to people or did you find it easier just to stay private?

Speaker 1 1:12:54
I honestly I just held back I didn't really like talking about it. It was just it felt like it was just an repeating record where I was saying things and people weren't understanding it. And I also was still in the process of learning it. So I just, you know, kept it to myself didn't really talk about it was I absolutely had to,

Scott Benner 1:13:12
did you eventually find people in real life that you could confide in. I

Speaker 1 1:13:17
think I never really got the experience until after getting to college. And then once I graduated college, and moving to an even bigger town, that's what I finally found that was people where I was like, Okay, there's a lot of other people that have type one diabetes. And you know, there's a community out there, which I had never experienced before, is

Scott Benner 1:13:38
college where you met somebody with diabetes for the first time or just where you met more people with different ways of thinking. So

Speaker 1 1:13:44
I met my first person with diabetes, actually, my freshman year of high school, there was only one other person. And he had had it since he was a kid, like y'all once this was like, maybe born, or like right after that timeframe. So that was the only other person I knew until I got to college. And I started meeting other people. I was a member of the band, and I was an RA. So I was like, Okay, there's, you know, there's a small handful of people also at my university, but then, once I moved to, I moved to St. Louis. And a lot of my friends I met were like med students, and they were young professionals. And that's where I started really getting involved with one of my really close friends his day, he was also type one diabetic. And I was like, that's who introduced me to all these different types of communities and technologies, and which is really what helped jumpstart my learning more in depth with type one diabetes.

Scott Benner 1:14:35
Do you think I mean, there was that one person in high school, but you were young? Do you really think you were ready to build a relationship and around diabetes? Or did you even know the reason why that would be important at the time?

Speaker 1 1:14:46
I didn't know you know, I honestly didn't think about it. I just was like, Oh, there's another person in my class that's kind of going through the same thing as I am but they've also had it a lot longer than I have. So they kind of got it down. They don't I'll really talk about it. And I was like, Well, I don't really have much to, like, connect with him. So sorry, connect with him on. Yeah,

Scott Benner 1:15:06
no. So now once your world expands as far as different people, different backgrounds, different places in college, you see the need to connect in real life, but there's still only a few people, but there's still value in that, right?

Unknown Speaker 1:15:18
Correct.

Scott Benner 1:15:19
What do you think that value was at the time?

Speaker 1 1:15:22
I think it was just what making me feel like I was just a normal person. I just wanted that. And I just, I needed to know that like, you know, there was other people out there with type one diabetes experiencing the same type of, you know, thoughts that I was having.

Scott Benner 1:15:37
When were you first introduced to the Medtronic champions community? Yeah.

Speaker 1 1:15:42
So about two years ago, I was, you know, becoming more I was looking around and I noticed stumbled upon the Medtronic community. And I was like, this is something I really, really, I kind of need, you know, I said, I, all throughout these years, I was, you know, afraid to show my pump. You couldn't, I would wear long sleeves, like, didn't want people to see my CGM, because I didn't want people to ask me questions. And you know, I just felt so uncomfortable. And then I noticed seeing these people really, in the Medtronic community just they embraced it, you could see them, they weren't afraid to show it. And that was something I was really looking forward to.

Scott Benner 1:16:17
How was it knowing that your diabetes technology is such an important part of your health and your care? And having to hide it? What did it feel like to have to hide that diabetes technology? And how did it feel to be able to kind of let it go,

Speaker 1 1:16:30
I will refuse to go anywhere, like, I would run to the bathroom, I just didn't want to do it in public, because I felt like people were watching me. And that was just one of the hardest things I was trying to overcome. You know, I was fresh out of college, going into the professional world. So you know, going out on work events and things like that. I just, I just didn't think I just didn't think to have it out. Because I was so afraid. But then, once I did start, you know, embracing again and showing it that's when the curiosity came and it was actually genuine questions and people wanting to know more about the equipment that I'm on, and how does this work? And what does this mean? And things like that which meet, it kind of inspired me? Because I was like, Okay, people actually do want to understand what I'm experiencing with type one diabetes.

Scott Benner 1:17:15
What did you experience when, when the internet came into play? And now suddenly as easy as a hashtag, and you can meet all these other people who are living with diabetes as well? Can you tell me how that is? Either different or valuable? I guess, compared to meeting a few people in real life?

Speaker 1 1:17:32
Absolutely. I think if you look back from when I was first diagnosed to now, you, I would have never thought of like, you know, searching anything for someone with, you know, a type one diabetes. And now it's like, it's all I see, you know, you can easily search Medtronic champions, and you see people that pop up, and you're like, wow, look at all this content. And I think that's something that that kind of just motivates me, and which is how I've kind of came out of my shell and started embracing more and posting more on my social media with about, you know, how I live with type one diabetes. And I think that's something that I hope can inspire everyone else. What

Scott Benner 1:18:06
was it like having more personal intimate relationships in college with type one?

Speaker 1 1:18:11
I think it was kind of hard to explain, you know, just, for example, like, no one really knows, it understands, like what a logo is. And I think that was a very hard thing for me to explain, like I, you know, it can happen in any moment. And I'm sweating. I'm just really like, not all there. And I'm trying to explain, like, Hey, this is what's going on, I need your help. And I think that was something that was hard for me to, you know, I did talk to people about it. So when this happened, they were like, oh, you know, what's going on with your mate? I'm actually a type one diabetic? This is what's going on? I need your help. What about?

Scott Benner 1:18:49
Once you've had an experience like that in front of someone? Was it always bonding? Or did it ever have people kind of step back and be maybe more leery of your relationship? After

Speaker 1 1:19:02
I would tell someone I had type one diabetes after some type of event or anything, they were kind of more upset with me that I didn't tell them upfront. Because they were like, you know, I care about you, as a person I would have loved to knowing this about you. It's not anything you should have to hide from me. And that was a lot of the realization that I was going through with a lot of people.

Scott Benner 1:19:19
Okay, let me ask you this. And now we talked about what it was like to be low, and to have that more kind of emergent situation. But what about when your blood sugar has been high or stubborn? And you're not thinking correctly, but it's not as obvious maybe to you or to them? Yeah.

Speaker 1 1:19:33
So I also I go through my same experiences when I have high blood sugars, you know, I can tell like, for my co workers, for example, I didn't really talk to you know, when I go out backtrack, when I visit multiple sites for work, I usually don't announce it. And so sometimes, I'm working throughout the day, I might have snacks, forgot to take some insulin, and my blood sugar is running high and I'm a little bit more irritable. I'm all over We're the place. And I'm like, let me stop. Hey, guys, I need to like take some insulin and I'm sorry, I'm not I didn't tell you guys, I'm a diabetic. So you may be wondering why I'm kind of just a little bit snippy, you know, so I like to make sure I do that now going forward, because that's something I noticed. And it was kind of hindering me in my career because I was, you know, getting irritable, because I'm working nonstop. And I'm forgetting to stop, take a step back and focus on my diabetes, right? Hey,

Scott Benner 1:20:26
with the advent of new technologies, like Medtronic, CGM, and other diabetes technology, can you tell me how that's improved your life and those interactions with people? Yeah, I

Speaker 1 1:20:36
can. I feel confident knowing that it's working in the background, as someone and I always add what you said it, I have been someone that's really bad with counting my carbs. So sometimes I kind of undershoot it because I'm scared. But it allows me to just know that, hey, it's going, it's got my back if I forget something, and I think that allows me to have a quick, have a quick lunch. And then I'm able to get back into the work day because it's such a fast paced industry that I work in. So sometimes it is easy to forget. And so I love that I have that system that's keeping track of everything for me.

Scott Benner 1:21:09
Let me ask you one last question. When you have interactions online with other people who have type one diabetes, what social media do you find the most valuable for you personally? Like? What platforms do you see the most people and have the most good interactions on?

Speaker 1 1:21:25
Yeah, I've honestly, I've had tremendous interactions on Instagram. That's where I've kind of seen a lot of other diabetics reach out to me and ask me questions. I've commented, like, Hey, you're experiencing this too. But I've recently also been seeing tic TOCs. And, you know, finding on that side of it, I didn't, you know, see the videos in different videos. And I'm like, I would love to do stuff like that. But I just never had the courage. So I'm seeing people make, like, just the fun engagement videos now, which I love, you know, really bringing that awareness to diabetes. Yeah.

Scott Benner 1:21:54
Isn't it interesting? Maybe you don't know this. But there's some sort of an age cutoff somewhere where there is an entire world of people with type one diabetes existing on Facebook, that don't go into tick tock or Instagram and vice versa. Yeah. And I do think it's pretty broken down by, you know, when that platform was most popular for those people by age, but your younger people, I'm acting like, I'm 100 years old, but younger people seem to enjoy video more.

Speaker 1 1:22:21
Yes, I think it's just because it's something you see. And so it's like, and I think the one thing and obviously, it's a big stereotype around diabetes is you don't like you have diabetes. And that's something I always face. And so when I see other people that are just, you know, normal, everyday people, and I'm like, they have type one diabetes, just like me, they're literally living their life having fun. That's just something you want to see. Because you don't get to see people living their everyday lives with diabetes. And I think that's something I've really enjoyed.

Scott Benner 1:22:51
What are your health goals? When you go to the endocrinologist, and you make a plan for the next few months? What are you hoping to achieve? And where do you struggle? And where do you see your successes, I'll

Speaker 1 1:23:02
be honest, I was not someone who is, you know, involved with my diabetes, I wasn't really focused on my health. And that was something that, you know, you go into an endocrinologist and you get these results back. And it's not what you want to hear. It gets, it makes you nervous, it makes you scared. And so I personally for myself, you know, I was like, This is my chain, this is my chance to change. I know, there's people that are living just like me, everyday lives, and they can keep their agencies and their blood sugar's under control. How can I do this? So I go in with, you know, I would like to see it down a certain number of points each time I would love for my doctor to be like, Hey, I see you're entering your carbs. I see you're, you know, you're not having lows. You're not running high, too often. That's my goal. And I've been seeing that. And that's what motivates me, every time I go to the endocrinologist where I don't dread going. It's like an exciting visit for me.

Scott Benner 1:23:50
So you'd like to set a goal for yourself and then for someone to acknowledge it to give you kind of that energy to keep going for the next goal. Yeah,

Speaker 1 1:23:58
I feel as a type one diabetic for me, and it's just a lot to balance. It's a hard our journey. And so I want someone when I go in, I want to be able to know like, Hey, I see what you're doing. Let's work together to do this. Let's you don't want to be put down like you know, you're doing horrible you're doing it's just, it's not going to motivate you because it's you're you're already fighting a tough battle. So just having that motivation and acknowledging the goods and also how we can improve. That's what really has been the game changer for me in the past two years.

Scott Benner 1:24:34
Jalen, I appreciate you spending this time with me. This was terrific. Thank you very much.

Unknown Speaker 1:24:38
Absolutely. Thank you.

Scott Benner 1:24:40
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Scott Benner 0:00
Hello friends and welcome to episode 1175 of the Juicebox Podcast.

Orisha is back you originally heard her in Episode 823. There are bugs in your belly. And today we're going to talk about a number of things but we're really going to dig down into glyphosate and non organic fruits and vegetables that have been treated with pesticides and how those things can affect your blood sugar. Please don't forget that nothing you hear on the Juicebox Podcast should be considered advice, medical or otherwise, always consult a physician before making any changes to your health care plan or becoming bold with insulin. If you have type one diabetes, or are the caregiver of someone with type one, please go to T one D exchange.org/juicebox. And fill out the survey when you complete the survey you are helping with type one diabetes research and you're supporting the Juicebox Podcast he won the exchange.org/juicebox If you're looking for a smart, simple way to stay safe online, you can get a 14 day free trial of aura at ora.com/juice Box A you are a.com/juice box or is proactive protection that does more to keep you safe online. Check it out with a free 14 day trial at my link

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Arisha 2:28
Hi, my name is Orisha. And I've had type one diabetes for about nine years. How

Scott Benner 2:34
old are you now? 1414? Are you the same age as the last time I recorded with you or no?

Unknown Speaker 2:39
I was 13

Scott Benner 2:40
Things have changed. I was also younger than I think we maybe not. When did we record

Arisha 2:48
in December like winter break?

Scott Benner 2:50
Oh, I'm still the same way? No, I understand the calendar. Just let me go through it in my head. I am older too. We're both older. Okay. Let me know when my birthday is for people who are interested. And after they hear you talk today they are going to be interested you were on episode 823. That's called there are bugs in your belly. Is that right? Yeah. And we had such a good time that you're coming back on again. Right? Yeah, okay. Yeah, for sure. That tell people why you're not at school right now. Um, because of the podcast, we're making a podcast. Yeah. You are gonna go later today, we can take the whole day off.

Arisha 3:28
I have like, so I only have like three classes in the morning. And then I have lunch at like 10. So I might just go after lunch because I have more classes after lunch anyway.

Scott Benner 3:39
Okay. What grade you in? I'm a freshman freshman in high school. Okay. And your parents are fine with you skipping like they're not at work and think you're at school, right? No, no, they're

Unknown Speaker 3:48
they work from home. Okay,

Scott Benner 3:50
they know all this is happening. Yeah, I now appreciate this is going to you being on twice is going to piss some people off. Let me tell you why. First of all, I don't have people on twice very often. And secondly, I don't have a lot of kids. And then people complain to me, like you should have more kids on. And I always tell them, I think your kids might be boring. So I don't want to do that. But you were terrific last time. So we set it back up to come on again. What do you want to talk about this time?

Arisha 4:15
I feel like we talked a lot about food last time. So we could go like a little more into that. I feel like

Scott Benner 4:22
Do you think there's more good so we talked a lot about how you eat actually. Yeah, as a matter of fact, I almost called your episode, like how we eat however she eats but then we talked about the microbes in your belly. And that was more fun. Let's just remind people just a brief overview like what's your eating style like? So basically,

Arisha 4:43
I like I'm pretty much vegan. And I like so I don't eat dairy and like, I don't really add any red meat like occasionally only fish. But that's the most and then I'm usually like gluten free. Recently we started eating like what's it called? We Just a little though,

Scott Benner 5:01
just started mixing a little bit of wheat.

Arisha 5:03
Yeah, because it's like, not bad for you. I think it's like the glyphosate in it. Like, it's like a weed killer that people use. I think that's like the bad part.

Scott Benner 5:12
Why do you know all about that? Do your parents teach you about that? Or do you learn about it?

Arisha 5:16
Both my parents are like, really? Just in the food and stuff. Okay.

Scott Benner 5:20
Okay. So they're not like making you eat one way. And they're like, busy.

Unknown Speaker 5:25
The whole family like,

Scott Benner 5:27
diet, remind people, how many people in your family?

Unknown Speaker 5:30
My mom, my dad, and my brother, your brother? Your

Scott Benner 5:33
brother is older or younger? He's three. It's definitely younger. Yeah, see? That's where my math is razor sharp. So I see your 14 that kids three, he's only got one number and his age. So yeah, he's got to be younger than you have to age. I remember being incredibly impressed with you while we were talking. And I don't know, I guess at the end, I was like, You should come back with something. And we like that we're doing it. So I appreciate you doing this. I appreciate you skipping school to do it. Education is important. I feel like I should say, but maybe a half a day is not gonna hurt anything. Right? Yeah. What are you really missing?

Arisha 6:10
First Aid. I have AP Stats, I have that I have honors bio, and then ceramic. So like, I feel like you can't really go wrong in something like ceramics. So I think that's fine. And then yeah, we had a test and stats, so I can just make that up. Like, at the end of the day or tomorrow. I

Scott Benner 6:27
think we can call this episode where she's here to make you feel bad about yourself. Did you say AP Stats? Bio, and you'll just make this desktop? It'll be no problem. Yeah,

Arisha 6:36
I don't like that. Like, I feel like this year is a lot harder than last year. Okay. I don't like like school, like all the classes. Like there's so much homework.

Scott Benner 6:46
Is this the first time this isn't the first time you're switching rooms for classes? Is it? No, no, no. So but you went to a different building, I imagine. Oh, yeah.

Arisha 6:55
My school goes from like elementary all the way to like high school in different buildings. So what's

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Arisha 8:29
Honestly, it's not that different. Because in my middle school, there's only like two grades. Okay,

Scott Benner 8:33
alright, just seventh and eighth. So

Unknown Speaker 8:35
it's not that big of a deal.

Scott Benner 8:36
And the older kids are not like problematic, not

Arisha 8:39
really because like for like first period, I just have like a lot of seniors in my class seniors and juniors. And they're actually like, really like normal. Explain that. But they're just like, no one really talks. I feel like they're all like kind of quiet. And

Scott Benner 8:54
they don't look at you thinking she's taking a class as a freshman that I'm taking it as a senior. A

Arisha 9:00
lot of people in my school just take those like to get all their math credits. And as a senior just kind of felt like, there was like two other like freshmen in my class, but I don't know them at all. Is

Scott Benner 9:13
your district. Like, do they send a lot of kids to a lot of good colleges?

Unknown Speaker 9:16
I think so. Yeah.

Scott Benner 9:18
Where are you hoping to go?

Arisha 9:19
Probably like LSU. Or like, if not OSU? Like somewhere big? You know?

Scott Benner 9:25
Yeah. So you're Are you sort of in the Midwest? Yeah. And you'd like to go to a big car like, yeah, like bands and football games and 40,000 people and that kind of stuff. What makes that attractive?

Arisha 9:40
I don't know. It's just nice. Like,

Scott Benner 9:42
it seemed fun.

Arisha 9:43
Like, yeah, just seems fun. Because like, I feel like right now, like there's like, we always have like football games on Friday. And like, there's like no time to do anything. I feel like, like you can't go to like because of football games and stuff and then like, so I just feel like it'd be fun in college to do all those things.

Scott Benner 9:59
Okay, well, I think it probably will be. Yeah, I

Arisha 10:03
feel like I'm high school. It's really overrated. I feel like they're all kinda like,

Scott Benner 10:07
high school is overrated. Yeah,

Arisha 10:09
it's really I feel like it's really overrated. I don't think it's that like, great. Like,

Scott Benner 10:14
what did you expect? Like, what did you picture in your mind that didn't end up being?

Arisha 10:18
So basically, out in the high school and the middle school, we have like a loop because they're like, right next to each other. And you can like, drop them off, I thought we would have like a nice little area that we could drop off. And like, I wouldn't have to wait in the line for like, 20 minutes. But like, that's like the first thing and I just feel like it's the exact same like as middle school, except just more work and like classes,

Scott Benner 10:39
and more classes. All right. Yeah. Well, let's remind everybody how you manage what do you what kind of technology do you have?

Arisha 10:45
I have a Dexcom, G six and Omnipod? Five?

Scott Benner 10:49
How are you enjoying the Omnipod? Five?

Arisha 10:51
It's a lot better. I think after a month, it just starts working a lot better than it like, start like started to begin.

Scott Benner 10:57
Yeah. And you eat like, like, high level get up in the morning. Let's just say on a day, you're not skipping school to make a podcast. What would you have for breakfast? Tell people.

Arisha 11:09
It's like this power shake thing. I still drink every day for breakfast.

Scott Benner 11:13
You do everyday? You have the power shake?

Unknown Speaker 11:15
Yeah. Right.

Scott Benner 11:16
Is that right with you? Is it is it green? Yeah, it's green. That's very nice. I turn cage you on in the morning when I get up. But it's not. It's your it's like thick.

Arisha 11:25
On the bottom. It's a little thick. But I use like I am the brand that's called period. Because it's like certified non glyphosate free. Not on it's everything's organic. And it has like, I don't even have to give any insulin or anything for it,

Scott Benner 11:39
or their carbs listed on it. And you look at least 60. And you don't have to give anything for it at all. Because it's like really good for you. You think that matters? If it's good for you, then the carbs don't matter? Of course. So you so you're let's just say your blood sugar's 90 And you down that, that drink, your blood sugar does not go up at all. Oh, it goes to like 150. But that's like it. Okay. And then the algorithm gives you insulin. Yeah. So you could Bolus for it. You're saying?

Arisha 12:10
Yeah, like, I don't think it's necessary. Like, sometimes I'll give a unit if it's like 140 or 150. But I just like, it really depends what you put in it. Because I put like power shake in it. And then I put like, the supplements that's called like zinc aid, which gives you like all the nutrients and then biomedic, which gets rid of all the glyphosate in your body.

Scott Benner 12:32
When biomedic does. Yeah, that's really good for us. I can I gotta be honest, I don't want weed killer in my body. I'll write down biomedic and look into it. Yeah, it's from the brand period. Let's be clear, you don't work for them. Your mom's not like a pyramid representative or something like that. Or? No, I'm just kidding. Did your parents listen to your podcast? Yeah. What did they think? They thought it was great. Yeah. Good. I'm glad. That's nice. I like that very much. You're taking a strong stance, you think people should not have weed killer on their foods? Yeah,

Arisha 13:05
because glyphosate is like the number one like cause of cancer. Like I've read it in some studies and stuff. It's like the worst thing for you like,

Scott Benner 13:15
like most people on podcast, I'm gonna get my information from a 14 year old. Because I feel like you've looked into it. If you haven't, you'll tell me. But isn't there a study that says that, like, a huge portion of the population has that in their system when they test for it?

Arisha 13:29
Yeah, because I've when people like eat food, if it's not organic, it like 99%, has glyphosate in it, because they're trying to like kill weed by doing it. And if it's not organic, like there are other things that say that it's gonna be in our soil now for 80 years. So whatever you do, it's like really hard to get out. So,

Scott Benner 13:49
so yeah, this is from The Guardian. The CDC reported that out of 20 310 Urine samples, that's a lot of pee on, taken from a group of Americans intended to be representative of the population. 1885 of them contained detectable traces of glyphosate. That's a lot of people out of 2300

Arisha 14:09
Yeah, because a lot of people don't eat organic, like I feel like so the government has a site that's called Ew, G, okay. And they have something that's called the Dirty Dozen, which has things like kale and like, collard greens, and all of those things. And those are in like corn to like, if you eat corn that's not organic. Like just watch how your blood sugar spikes up.

Scott Benner 14:32
Wow. By the way, you're not wrong about this. And I'm now remembering more and more why we enjoyed talking to you so much while I'm continuing to the site. So ew. g.org Yeah, and I Googled Dirty Dozen. It's the 2023 shoppers guide to pesticides in produce. It's trademarked by the way. I'm just going to click on number one. Oh, no, there's no clicking. It's just the list. Strawberries spinach, kale, collard greens, peaches, pears, nectarines, too. This stuff all has that on it. Yeah,

Arisha 15:03
like you want to eat that like only if it's organic, or you don't want to eat it, especially grapes to like once, I think when we weren't into all this organic stuff, like the highest my blood sugar has ever gone. It's like 540 once and that was because I had grapes and they weren't organic, like, not totally because it went so like.

Scott Benner 15:25
Okay, hold on a second, let's keep looking glyphosate.

Arisha 15:28
There's also the list that's called the clean 15 from ew G,

Scott Benner 15:32
really the clean the clean 15

Arisha 15:36
That's like the foods that you should be able to eat without having them organic and stuff. But I think those are like, like bananas and stuff.

Scott Benner 15:46
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Arisha 18:27
It's not like all around diabetes. It's more about like autoimmune, okay. It's called type one takes. It's on like Spotify and Apple. But I haven't posted in a while but I'll start posting

Scott Benner 18:40
more. Why do you not post you're better at this than I am. You should do that.

Arisha 18:43
I do. I just post like once a week, and I just don't like I have them all, but I just need to like edit them and add an intro and all it's

Scott Benner 18:51
hard is it's a lot of work. I know it's a lot. Type one takes? Yeah. Is it all together is type one one word, I'm trying to find it high. It's like

Arisha 19:01
type with a T capitalized and then just a one. Like the numerical value and then takes with the capitalized t

Scott Benner 19:09
because I have access to all of the available podcasts. Maybe yours. Yeah, I'm just I'm looking on the on the master list here. I never led podcasters come on here. This is a big deal for you. You

Unknown Speaker 19:25
should show up on mine. Oh, I'll

Scott Benner 19:27
do that. That'd be fun. Oh my god. Yeah. You want to do that? Yeah, I'll do that. Is it does it have a website? Yeah,

Arisha 19:34
here I can show it I can see effects like if I show you maybe you'll recognize it. Well, that's one thing.

Scott Benner 19:40
I googled type one takes Apple podcasts and you know I came up what my podcasts came up the way it should be. Oh look like that. Here? No, take your watch me make you jealous. Hey, Rob, while you're editing this take out The dead space where we were looking for her podcast, please. But leave that part in Rob. I got it. on Spotify. I'm gonna follow you on Spotify. Thank you the reality of leaky gut tips on managing your type one diabetes. Look at you. Go crazy. All right, good job. Yeah, you're good at this. You should keep going. Alright, so we don't want glyphosate in our food. What else don't we want to be eating? I feel

Speaker 1 20:27
like everything like Cheerios, Cheerios has glyphosate.

Scott Benner 20:32
Do you really think this one thing? Is that impactful that you just you focus completely on ignoring, avoiding it? Yeah. And I'm gonna get it in everything. If it's not marked organic.

Arisha 20:45
No, there's like, there's this one like, so like, I'm not gonna like hate on Cheerios, but they probably have like a lot. They have like the most glyphosate like in studies and stuff. No kidding. Yeah. Ben

Scott Benner 20:56
and Jerry's ice cream hold on us. I googled what is glyphosate found in glyphosate has also been found in miscellaneous products like Ben and Jerry's ice cream, non organic cotton, nonword tampons, why don't use them, but I know how they work. And I don't think I want weed killer on those either. If I was going to use one, even drinking water, it's found in 75% of air and rain samples. What that hell?

Arisha 21:22
Because it spreads really fast, like,

Scott Benner 21:24
Well, how am I going to avoid it? If it's in the rain? Oh, I

Arisha 21:27
don't know about that. But like, there's like grocery shops linked near to like farms, like even their like organic produce that's near them. Like the glyphosate like travels from, like the glyphosate used in the farm to like, the grocery store, like it's that crazy.

Scott Benner 21:42
I mean, I'm assuming at some point you and your parents ate differently. And then you switched. What was the change that happened when you made the switch, like the food no to your body and your life. So

Arisha 21:53
this was like COVID year, like, when it was everything was kind of out of place, like my blood sugar. So I would eat breakfast. Like I used to drink like chocolate milk for breakfast. This is like bringing up memories. But like, I used to drink like chocolate milk for breakfast and like a muffin. And then I used I was like, 10 Oh my gosh, and I was and then I would go on a bike ride. And I would be to add for three hours, it was just like that it would go to 40. And I would eat lunch, it would just like it was a roller coaster. Like I'm drinking

Scott Benner 22:21
Earl Grey tea that my wife brought back for me from her trip to England. And I'm freaking out that there's glyphosate.

Arisha 22:30
Because in all the other like all these other countries, like in Europe, and India and the UK, but like besides like Canada and the United States, those two countries have like the most in it, because like everywhere else, it's banned. Like you can look at a list at like everything that's banned, like all those.

Scott Benner 22:48
I'm gonna say something that I think I've heard and then you'll tell me if you know about it or not. Okay, they use the glyphosate to kill the weeds. Yes. But it would also kill the plants. So they genetically alter the plants, so that the glyphosate doesn't kill them. Is that right? Yeah. I can't be good either. kind of

Arisha 23:10
know, that. Like, there's like, weed killers like the worst thing though, because it's like, killing weeds. And weeds are like kind of natural. So it's like, kills everything.

Scott Benner 23:21
I'm not a I wasn't an AP Bio. So I might not get this right. But it feels to me that if you're going to take a seed and genetically alter it, so that weed killer can't hurt it. That's bizarre because now the weeds now the I don't know, let's say corn right now the corns in the field. weeds are growing all around it. The farmer probably drops it from a plane. I don't know how they do it, that everything gets covered. So the weed killer hits the corn, it hits the weeds, it hits the grass, it hits the ground. Everything dies except the corn but the corn still has the weed killer on it. It just it just doesn't kill it. Yeah,

Arisha 23:57
because they've like genetically modified the corn right as well. The court like corn is like the worst thing to eat. That's like not organic because it has so many pesticides, because corn attracts like so many bugs. So that's why like recently we started finding like organic corn Apple foods. No kidding. Yeah, I was like so excited.

Scott Benner 24:18
I mean, you're freaking me out. But I'm gonna pay more attention to this. I think did we talk about this last time?

Unknown Speaker 24:23
We talked about like leaky gut. Yeah,

Scott Benner 24:26
we didn't talk about this though. Right? No, yeah. That's by the way, you want to know the secret? Well, I don't let people come on twice. Why? Because that's too repetitive. No, because I can't remember what I talked about with them. So I can't just the next. People was like, I want to come back. And I'm like, here's what's gonna happen. I'm gonna ask you the same questions and it's gonna be like, and you're gonna be like, You already asked me this. And then I'm gonna have to admit, I don't remember talking to you. It's funny. I make a lot of these. And so they're difficult to remember. You understand? Yeah. What made you start a podcast?

Arisha 24:58
I just feel like there's so Much like misconception about like, all these kinds of things, that a lot of things just need to be like clarified, like a lot of people think that if they just eat low carbs, like their blood sugars will be managed well like that's not true. So

Scott Benner 25:12
if you're having you think if you even if you're low carb, but you're eating kind of non organic stuff that has these glyphosates and other stuff in it, that it's still gonna push your blood sugar up.

Arisha 25:22
Yeah, cuz if you eat salad that has, like, not organic stuff in it. I feel like your blood sugar's gonna rise, like really bad.

Scott Benner 25:29
We should definitely listen to your 14 you know, a lot. Right? Yeah. I mean, you can skip a test and take it the next day and still be okay. I can't do that. I don't know. I didn't pay attention in school. Do you think that's why I didn't do well. I was so surprised when I graduated. I was like, Oh, me, really? That's crazy. I don't think you're probably didn't teach me anything. It was my fault. Mostly. Was it my fault? Most like, can we blame someone else? No. I think we can blame me probably. I did not enjoy going to school. And I was resistant to it. I wish I wasn't I can honestly tell you as an adult. It's one of my biggest regrets is not just taking that part seriously paying attention. And then seeing what that sparked in what I was interested in. I could have like, extended and looked into other things like you are I just I didn't do that. I didn't grow up that way. I grew up like the idea of like, you go to school because the government says you go to school, and my mom will get arrested if I don't go and then go get a job. Like that was kind of how it was raised. But what do you think you want to do? an endocrinologist. You just want to be an endocrinologist? Yeah, that's pretty cool. You think you can do that? Get that accomplished? Yeah, like 100%. Nice. Not hard, right? Just go to school, become a doctor. Now. When you become a doctor? Are you going to talk to people about this stuff? Are you afraid it's gonna freak them out? And they're not going to understand what you're saying? And you're only gonna have 10 minutes to talk to them and they're gonna leave and go like, Oh, my God, my doctor is weird. She said, there's a bug killer on my corn. I

Arisha 27:07
feel like if you can, like, if they like try it themselves, they just like move like no, because, like, you can just see the difference, just like by looking at it by looking at your blood sugars like,

Scott Benner 27:18
Okay, I'm sorry, Arden's blood sugar's a little low. So I'm texting with my wife about it. Here, Arden will appreciate this. She's getting her period. She's eating better. Because her freshman year in college, this is gonna happen to you too, by the way, you're gonna go to this college, this big school, and the food they're going to give you is going to be garbage, alright, it's going to be and it's going to be all just like preservatives, and everything else. And then you're gonna have like, you're gonna have to go find your own food. You have to cook and as a freshman, that's going to be difficult. And on a big campus, you're not gonna have a car, like, what are you going to do about that? You can't cook as a freshman. I mean, where are you getting a kitchen from?

Unknown Speaker 27:59
Oh, CFD, that sounds really bad.

Scott Benner 28:01
You can't be an endocrinologist. Okay, does everybody want to hear Arden? Like wake up from asleep? Because I think calling. I think that's about to happen. Hold on. I'm gonna tell her she ate too much glyphosate. She's trying that she's been doing all nighters for a couple of nights and she's sleeping this morning. Where she's dead. It's been forwarded to an automatic voice message. That didn't go well. We'll try again. Your call has been forwarded to an automatic voice. Well, now what do we do? Future endocrinologist. Let me take a look and see where she's at. She's in a dorm. It's an apartment actually on campus. I can't on campus apartment. She was in a dorm last year. But she moved to on campus housing like this specifically because she wanted to kitchen because she said it was just too hard to Bolus for the food they were giving her. Excuse me, she was using so much insulin. It was like it was not going well. And she said one of the only things she said when she got home was I got to make my own food. Next year. Yeah, sure. I can't keep eating there. She's cooking most days. But there's still times where she's like, you know, like, which after dinner, she's like, I warmed up this or I bought a frozen this and I'm like, Well, okay, but it's still going much better than than the food she was eating at the school. As a matter of fact, I think some of these low blood sugars that she's been having the last couple days. It's partly because she's just been awake for like, way to like, you know, I mean, she's not sleeping. Yeah. And she's working at school. And I think the other thing is, is that as time goes on, I think maybe her settings are a little strong. Yeah, and now she's not eating that same food anymore. Yeah. Alright, so we're gonna try our caller one more time and see if we can wake her up. Yeah, cuz her blood sugar is just it's just keeps drifting down. So if she doesn't answer that As time, you know we do next, Find My iPhone makes terrible noise. So like, I don't know if she's like in the shower. automatic voice message system. Alright, so here we go. So here's one for people who have iPhones find my, and you open it up, and then you go to devices. And then you scroll down to Arden's phone. Then it says play sound off that you push play. And now it's playing a sound on our phone. And I don't know if you've ever done this before. It's like a huge like loud, it's not a great sound. Yeah. Then she's going to wake up and be irritated. And

Speaker 1 30:40
I'm going to text her. What is she studying? Arden's

Scott Benner 30:43
going to fashion school? She's learning how to make clothing. Wow. So said, I've sent her a text, well wait a minute and see if she answers the text. If not, I'll try to call again in a second. Yes, she's learning how to design clothing. She was in high school like you as a freshman, she didn't know what you wanted to do. As a sophomore, I don't think she really had any thoughts. But in COVID, and like her sophomore ish, juniors, like gap in there, she started talking about, she either wanted to go for pre law, or she wanted to make clothing. Those were her two choices. And she just went back and forth about it. And she decided she's like, I really want to go to fashion school and learn how to make clothing. So the really cool thing about Arden that I don't think we talked about is that she was not like an artistic person, meaning she wasn't a person who spent time drawing or painting or anything like that. She'd never sewn anything. Like she didn't know how to sew like she had nothing. When she got to college, her first drawing class was like the first time she tried to draw. Wow, yeah. And she said that the other day, they were doing, they're doing life drawing right now. So she had this project, she had to spend six hours in the lab drawing skeleton, a skeleton. And like, and like removing it and like moving it around drawing it again. And doing all these sketches like she had to she did like, it looks like there's 50 of them on this sheet. And she said that the other day in class, her teacher asked to say it, and then pull it up in the front and use it as an example for everybody in the class. Wow, she was really happy. But no kidding. Like a year and a half ago, I've never tried to draw anything in her life. So it's she's she puts her mind to it. She's going to get it done. You know, I know where to try to call again. Interesting. I'm sorry, this is taking up your time. We'll keep talking but don't worry about it. Okay. Your call has been forwarded. Right? This is not going particularly well.

Unknown Speaker 32:46
Does she have a roommate? Yep. I'm

Scott Benner 32:47
gonna try a roommate now. So now it's gonna start over again with a different with a different 19 year old girl. Now we'll try calling her Hey, aren't as low do you think you'll wake her up? Yeah, thank you. Okay, so let's just assume they're gonna take care of that. And keep going. What changes did you see in your health? Or do you think your parents have talked about with you after like cutting all that out and going completely organic?

Arisha 33:23
So last time, we like talked about this one thing where I went to a functional medicine doctor. And they did all his tests like the before part. And they like said my energy was like a, like a six year old man's energy. Like, because my energy level was really low. How

Scott Benner 33:40
did they test for that? And with bloodwork, though? Like there's not an energy blood test? Did you have like, Do you know what they did? I think it was like urine samples. Okay, so when you made the changes, did you actually fear your feel your energy level rise?

Arisha 33:55
Oh, yeah. Because like, there's like, I feel like fifth grade and like seventh grade are really different. So like, I feel like I was able to, like manage more. I used to do a lot of sports and like fifth period. And like, for some reason, I was like never good at them. Like I don't even know why. But like in seventh grade, I just caught like really good at them.

Scott Benner 34:11
You just you started to just have more physical energy. Yeah, about mental clarity. Do you have any, like, thoughts about that? Has that changed for you at all?

Arisha 34:21
I don't really feel like that that much. Because then like, when I was like, five, I like five to fifth grade. I was like, completely gluten free. And like, I don't eat junk food and all that kind of stuff. But like occasionally like maybe once or twice, but like not really like regularly or anything. So like, I feel like first to fifth grade. I was like pretty, like, decent, like food wise. But like in sixth grade. It got like bad because of COVID. So I just feel like I've never really had any like, mental like, clarity type thing.

Scott Benner 34:52
Yeah. What's the worst thing you eat in the course of a week? Like that's something that this whole week, like in a week and you're like, oh, I shouldn't I mean that but I did. Oh, I have a picture, a picture of what you ate.

Arisha 35:04
I just don't know what it's called. Okay? It's like these unreal. They're like these peanut butter cups. They have like, they kind of look Yeah, they look like this. That's

Scott Benner 35:14
the worst thing you ate. Yeah.

Arisha 35:18
Or like I chew gum occasionally. Mines like mines like as part I'm free and all so we're good with that

Scott Benner 35:24
aspartame free. Yeah, I'm just letting people know Arden's awakes, take care of herself, and I'm texting her when you're awake. Let's talk. So gum, and a really healthy peanut butter cup.

Arisha 35:36
Yeah, yeah, kinda think. There's these like, I don't really know because I just like for lunch. I usually just eat like a salad or like, oh, there's these things in Costco. They're Owlman tortillas. Okay, from the brand Cha. They're like really good. Like,

Scott Benner 35:56
those. You like almond tortillas?

Arisha 35:59
Yeah, they're not organic, but they're really like, their ingredients are clean. And yeah.

Scott Benner 36:08
Amen. Dessert. No, wait. That's tortoise. It's

Arisha 36:11
from the brim like s i e. T. I think that toast fellow.

Scott Benner 36:16
Turns out. I'm not the first person to Google almond tortillas, Costco. And I si, e t. E. Yes, and almond flour tortillas. And those. Those are good. Yeah,

Arisha 36:28
so we put that until like, my dad makes this little pizza thing. Like, and my brother loves it too. So basically, he just adds like one of them on the bottom. And then he had like the this red sauce. It's just, it's just tomatoes. That's all it is.

Scott Benner 36:44
Are they thin? Like could I rat like because I use a wrap every morning with my egg and some fruit and some protein. Should I try these? You could try

Arisha 36:53
it if you didn't have that much like in the wrap but they also saw like cassava

Scott Benner 36:57
once, okay, what the hell? Is that a word? Yeah,

Arisha 37:01
cassava. It's, it's like a root of something.

Scott Benner 37:05
Okay. I'll check into this. You have

Arisha 37:08
to get that one out whole foods that but like it, but it's a lot bigger too. So like, sometimes I'll just eat one of those for lunch. Would that be like otherwise? Then we put like the forger cheese on them. It's like really good. Like a little pizza.

Scott Benner 37:19
So even when I'm having my little wrap, it's got wheat in it. You're thinking the weeds? Probably not organic. So I'm doing that with that. So I'm trying to eat healthy and I'm still killing myself.

Arisha 37:31
Because the wheat we intend like a problem. There's this one brand. Oh my god, I forgot. It's like, just let me find it. But it's like organic. And if we isn't the problem, it's like the stuff that's been put on the wheat because there's so much glyphosate on the itself. But like cassava is a really good replacement for wheat. If like someone does wheat doesn't suit someone. But other than that, I feel like we it's not that

Scott Benner 37:56
bad. I'm seeing that the company I use for my tortillas has an organic version, but I it's not the ones I buy. Interesting. Okay.

Arisha 38:05
Oh, this is the brand it's called jovial J of the aisle. That's like, because they have that's the we started using because it's glyphosate free, organic, non GMO,

Scott Benner 38:17
jovial foods. All right. Oh, and then but if I eat like you don't eat meat, but you eat fish. Yeah, it's like seafood. Not that much. Like

Arisha 38:27
I'll eat it. Like I don't have anything against it. Like if it's in like if we're making it. I'll eat it.

Scott Benner 38:31
Are you scared of mercury?

Speaker 1 38:33
Not really. Because we get not with not farm raised.

Scott Benner 38:37
Like wild caught. Yeah, well, no, I think there's like, I mean, I think you should just not eat at all because you'll die in a couple of weeks. But at least there won't be any bad stuff in your food. No, I mean, I hear people say all the time not to eat too much shellfish are crustaceans because of mercury and something like that. But I mean, in certain maybe tuna as well. I don't

Arisha 39:02
need to know. I think it's disgusting. I just don't like the way it tastes even like

Scott Benner 39:06
a tuna steak.

Arisha 39:07
I don't just like I don't like certain types of fish. I'm gonna like Feldman. And like, that's the only fish I really like. Asked me like certainly cook. Like if I go out and they're like serving fish. Like, I just don't like it. It

Scott Benner 39:21
says the tuna is very nutritious. It's also high mercury compared to most other fish. Okay. You like salmon? Yeah,

Arisha 39:28
but like more than salmon. I feel like we should. Like shrimp is probably the most thing.

Scott Benner 39:36
Looks like salmon is not too bad for mercury. Swordfish is. I wonder why some are higher than others. Salmon doesn't have much at all it says it's interesting. Like why would one are they all in the same water? All right. Well, you're bumming me out. But you really feel like it has an impact on your blood sugar. So like yeah, Do me a favor. Tell me what you ate yesterday, like the whole day. breakfast to lunch? Yeah. You had your drink in the morning.

Arisha 40:06
Okay, yeah. So, and then I had lunch and for lunch, I had like a salad. I put like a lot of fruits on myself.

Scott Benner 40:14
So fruit on the salad. Yeah,

Arisha 40:16
a lot of fruit. It just tastes better. All right. You made a thumbs up thing.

Scott Benner 40:20
Did it did it again. I'm sorry. I think I was just scratching my face that time. Really? Soon. Fix it. So salad with fruit. Yeah. And organic lettuce, kind of all the fruits organic.

Arisha 40:33
Yeah, cashes some raisins, raisins.

Scott Benner 40:36
And then for lunch for dinner. I

Arisha 40:39
had to yesterday was Monday. Yeah. Okay. So basically, then, so like, my lunch was at 10. So I took like a little snack break in school at like one. And it was like, it's like those like little fruit bars.

Scott Benner 40:53
Little fruit bars. Or snack break? Yeah. All right. And then dinner. I

Arisha 41:00
think yesterday I had mushroom soup. My mom made leaves like dal rotis. Like, lentils. Kind of things. Tell

Scott Benner 41:12
people the mushroom soups. Not creamy. It's but it's thin, right? Like clear. No, it's creamy. It is creamy. Yeah,

Unknown Speaker 41:19
we use the coconut milk.

Scott Benner 41:21
Okay, your mom made cream of mushroom soup with coconut milk? Why she was really good. I bet she does. Why does she have so much free time? What's going on there?

Arisha 41:30
I think she was working. She like makes mush. Like in the fall like around this time. We always like make a lot of soup for a couple of months. So we usually drink like this soup. Or like other soup. It's really easy. We just like put a bunch of things in like a pot, and then it cooks. And you just boil it. It's

Scott Benner 41:47
like not that. Okay, where did she get the mushrooms from? From the grocery store? Yep, from Costco, from Costco. Okay. And they're organic.

Arisha 41:56
Cool. Sounds like a lot of options. If you like trying to look, I

Scott Benner 42:00
have to say Costco does a weird because it's a warehouse. But they do a really good job of like, you know, they have a couple of first of all their business models, they find what people like, and then they knock it off. And then yeah, and then they make their own and they make their own, which oftentimes ends up being better than the thing that I don't want to start ripping off. I'm

Arisha 42:20
only mad. They like have this coconut milk, not coconut milk, coconut water. It was really good because it was like from I think, from Bangladesh or somewhere because it was really sweet. And it was like pink too. And then they just knocked it off because it was doing better than theirs. And then they just added and they just kept they're not like maybe

Scott Benner 42:39
they do that sometimes do they carry to get you excited about it. Then they stopped selling it. Yeah, I know they do that. So you guys go there you shop. You get your fruits and vegetables there. I don't like their bananas. Can I come right out and say at Costco, I don't think does a good job with Ben. Do you know what I mean? They're always kind of green and mushy and like never quite. I don't like them. They're never quite ready.

Arisha 43:00
We just like freeze the bananas because like we like make ice cream out of that sometimes. Oh, nice.

Scott Benner 43:06
Yeah, that's good, too. I think it's Yeah,

Arisha 43:09
I like after school. Like when it was really hot for like the first month of school everyday after school. Not every day, but most of the time I would take like they from Costco sells like these cubes of mangoes. So I just put them in the blender like a whole handful. And then I put like coconut cream. And then I blended it and it just tasted like shore but it was so good.

Scott Benner 43:29
You know I'm only eating coconut milk. Yogurt now.

Unknown Speaker 43:32
Really? What brand Oh,

Scott Benner 43:35
I don't hold on. I find out it's really

Unknown Speaker 43:36
some pretty good brands too. Oh, yeah.

Scott Benner 43:40
I need to talk to you more often. I'll probably be healthier if I just talk to you more often. So delicious. Like you I feel like you're so let down by me.

Speaker 1 43:48
I want to I want to know the brand and then like oh, that's what it's called. So delicious. Can I read the ingredients for that? Alright, I'm

Scott Benner 43:54
getting it. Hold on a second.

Unknown Speaker 43:55
Is it the vanilla?

Scott Benner 43:57
I have I do the banana and strawberry. I do vanilla. I do. Keyline

Arisha 44:03
I remember I used to eat this a long time ago. Yeah. Yeah.

Scott Benner 44:09
You got a better one now. Yeah. I assumed I wasn't going to have the right one. That's why I brought it up. Here the thing and this one is

Arisha 44:17
that I'm trying to like rethink find like working. So basically it says that it only has 2% or less than but has like all these been gums. And then it always says that has like natural flavors. That's like not good. You're like

Scott Benner 44:32
what does that mean? It's just not good. Okay, so All right, tell me what brands I should be looking for. Go ahead. I'm drinking out of my water which is I'm sure it's killing me.

Arisha 44:42
There's one brand it's called forger. I just don't like the

Scott Benner 44:45
way that taste. But that is gonna be a problem for me. No, but no, there's the sprint

Arisha 44:50
is really good. It's called cocoa June.

Speaker 1 44:53
This is what it looks like. It tastes really good. And I found it. It's probably one of my favorites. thing

Arisha 45:01
I was obsessed with it for this whole like, week not all I would eat

Scott Benner 45:05
cocoa when am I going to find this at Whole Foods looks like hippies make if there's not even a pictures on the packaging. Alright I'll go to hold on I'm writing this down Whole Foods. Coca June red pepper red not eating that. See this is the problem with hippies lemon dill red pepper this is supposed to be yogurt.

Speaker 1 45:25
Are you looking at the right thing because this just sounds like water and coconut

Scott Benner 45:32
learn more. Oh wait, this is a dip. Nevermind it's not the yogurt. It's like why would you put dual in yogurt? That's funny. But like I got it down mixed berry dark chocolate banana cinnamon vanilla bean. Alright, hold on. I'm gonna go get this today. Where did you tell me Whole Foods? Yeah, it's just over there yesterday. Now I gotta go back. Alright.

Arisha 45:57
We have like, Whole Foods. I'm like, they're like really close to each other.

Scott Benner 46:02
So basically, I'm eating yogurt, an egg and a wrap in the morning. I shouldn't be eating any of it. What about the egg? They don't spray weed killer in the chickens. Do they? Oh God, do they?

Speaker 1 46:12
They inject like karma. Alright, they're

Scott Benner 46:15
organic eggs. Yeah, they're gonna be small. No. Was that good? All right, so I have to go get organic eggs. They're gonna have those at Costco. Right? Yeah, they're gonna cost more thank God dammit. All right, hold on a second. Coach Yun yogurt. Organic eggs. And what the hell was the rap called? Pa 10. I got it. I eat

Arisha 46:43
the rap is like pretty good, though. Like the yogurt. Don't put the yogurt like in there without mixing like salt because it like it's all it's like sweet. A little sweet. Just like a little bit.

Scott Benner 46:54
I gotta put salt in the yogurt. Are you gonna put it in the wrap? No, I'm gonna eat it like I get up. Oh, yeah. Here's what happens. I get up in the morning. I take the athletic greens. I drink that right? Yeah, and I do my things. Right, like a shower. You know what I mean? Stuff like that. Get dressed. And then I have usually a yogurt. And yeah, and I take an egg. I scramble the egg with a little bit of butter. Cheese. This is the butter organic. Probably not let me write down butter. And then you should get

Arisha 47:23
like the vegan butter because theater is just really bad for you like butter and milk. Butter

Speaker 2 47:28
is the best thing in the world. It's the only thing that makes life worth living. What are you talking about? I can't eat butter. God dammit. Are you serious? What kind of what kind of what? Say it again? vegan butter. Yeah, that sounds horrible. Hold on a second. What the hell do you want?

Arisha 47:46
The thing is just don't like, get one with sunflower oil. Because that's like really bad.

Scott Benner 47:53
I don't do oils. That's

Arisha 47:54
what there's oil in the butter for like if you're gonna get vegan butter.

Scott Benner 47:58
Now. Yeah, now I'm confused. Can I just have butter? That's just butter. Oh,

Arisha 48:02
yeah. But like, hell. Yeah, but like the cow like they put stuff in my cow.

Scott Benner 48:08
Oh my god, this is terrible. Okay, hold on a second vegan butter. I'm buying and get like I want you to. I'm not kidding. I'm buying everything that you told me and I'm going to make my breakfast is like this for two weeks. That this is what I'm gonna do. But vegan butter is making me upset. But I'm looking.

Arisha 48:26
Well, you could get grass fed butter. Grass fed cow butter. That might be better. Alright.

Scott Benner 48:31
Alright. That's a good alright, I'll do that. But that also sounds expensive.

Arisha 48:35
I don't think like it's that because the thing and Deacon better is that we'll

Scott Benner 48:39
have a job. You don't know what this stuff cost? Talking about? You don't think is that expensive? Get the hell out of here. What do you find out? How much do you cost? Alright, okay, so wait, that's a Wait, I got butter in the pan. I'll get grass fed butter. And then I was buying my butter at Costco. And Costco has good butter. I know. But you told me not to eat it now. No, no, they

Unknown Speaker 49:06
have like the good grass fed stuff. Yeah, I don't eat dairy. But like I've seen it like, I just like, Look, girl.

Scott Benner 49:12
All right, I'll do that. You're gonna make me broke. Okay, so I'll do that. And then I make the egg. I can put pepper on my egg, right? Yeah, thank you make my egg. I'm gonna wrap it my arm and wrap. Yeah, I'm gonna wrap it's not gonna taste dry. No,

Arisha 49:29
no, no. Okay. And that's like really good. That's like, my favorite. I'm choosing

Scott Benner 49:33
to believe you. And then I would like I have some turkey like I took a turkey bread. Oh, God is the turkey organ. I don't know. I took the tour. I smoked a turkey breasts. So it's like smoky and nice. And then I was cutting that up and mixing that in with my egg and then wrapping it up and that was my breakfast. Okay, so this is not so even though that sounds incredibly healthy. It's not as good as it could be. No, and it's probably not even that healthy. It It's just yeah, that's insane. If I start eating like that, and I lose a bunch of weight, where do you live? I'm going to come to your house and say thank you don't tell me that you shouldn't tell people where you live. Okay, I have my list here. Wraps, butter, organic eggs. Cocoa, June. That's it Whole Foods. And we end up biomedic biomedic. What's it called?

Unknown Speaker 50:23
Here? Yeah.

Scott Benner 50:25
Pure like got it here. This is not a pill. This is or it's a it's a pill. It is. Oh, well, there that sounds easy. Can I get it on Amazon? Or no? Well, that does something bad happened to me. If I do it on Amazon.

Speaker 1 50:38
You probably could buy Holy crap. These are really expensive. No, no, but there's like a lot of them. It's they're $1 apiece. Well, like you're cleansing your body.

Scott Benner 50:49
And how long wait, how long is it going to take? Alright, period. biomedic is the first ever anti GMO supplement that helps protect your gut from glyphosate.

Unknown Speaker 50:58
How much is it? Isn't it only like 3060 tablet

Scott Benner 51:00
60 capsules with at least they're vegan capsules. And but $60 That's $1 apiece. My math is pretty cool. looking on Amazon. Yeah. Should I be looking somewhere else?

Arisha 51:12
No, Amazon like always upsells things you should go you should just get it on the website. Okay, cuz they have they get like a lot of coupons and stuff. Somebody

Scott Benner 51:20
says these smelled like fabric softener.

Speaker 1 51:24
They smell they're made out of cellulose or whatever it's called. I

Scott Benner 51:28
don't care. I'm just assuming that's a little tick that wrote that. I'm just gonna read it like, review. I started living with irritable bowel syndrome driving me crazy. Poop time was never consistent. running to the bathroom was getting on my nerves. My poop is so bow. Oh God, what is happening? Wait a minute. This is like such. Alright, ready? I've never done this before. Let's read this review. I don't care if anybody buys these or not. We're still read the review. It's from 2018 It says I'm gonna read it my podcast voice. I thought I would review this product on Amazon. Even though I didn't buy it from Amazon. I purchased directly from purism. Here's what happened to me. I was starting to have the irritable bowel syndrome and it was driving me crazy. Poop time was never consistent and running to the bathroom is getting on my nerves. Are you laughing at me? The the constant worry about whether I was going to poop my pants. I went from running to the bathroom with diarrhea to being constipated. And it was impossible to know what my gut was going to do produce our to our day to day. Well, this product seemed to have fixed all that. I feel like I sell I sell like the guy who sells the tape that he makes a boat out of it. Hello. I had only been taking it for about seven days. I started with one pill in the am and two in the evening. That's $3 a day. By the way, that's not part of her review. That's me talking. The recommended dose is two a day she doesn't care what the recommended dose and by the way, this could be a guy but I figured I would add a little extra in the beginning and after two weeks, I will go to the to a day me when people cannot write maintenance level. At day three or four. I can't remember now I was constantly. Why the hell does it matter if it was day three or four? And why do you have to tell people you can't remember just say a few days and I was consistently having normal daily bowel movements. Hold on, that wasn't the best part. Here comes this is why I'm reading this one. Normally, my poop is so foul. I flush as soon as it leaves my body to try to lessen the offensive odor that I exit the bathroom and close the door as quickly as possible. Now what's happening to this person? One day, I realized I didn't rush to flush. We're making a t shirt that says don't rush to flush and selling it immediately on the website. I couldn't believe I couldn't smell the odor. Alright, ready? Try to imagine this. I asked my roommate who constantly made jokes about my offensive odor to check out the weird smell in the bathroom. He came, sniffed and said and this is a quote. I don't smell anything. It was a joyous day in my life. I looked at him and I said well that's what I thought because I didn't smell anything boy this is unnecessary words. And I just unloaded a big dump this is the moment I knew this was the cause because nothing else in my life had changed. I will use this product as long as it gives those results I'm sorry, curse your kid

All right, listen. I want to say a couple of things. My poop does not smell bad. But I'm gonna try this because this episode is called. I think this is it Sup is called ERISA tells me how to live. You want me to go to their website? I'm going to do it right now. Hold on a second. And I'm actually going to go out and buy all the GMO stuff today that you told me to, then I'm going to start eating that way. So Purium products, by the way, nobody go buy this until we find out if it's good, and then make them buy ads before we do it. So what is, uh, hold on a second? biome? Medic. I got it. It's the same damn price. Hey, put like a loyal customer price, but I am not a loyal

Speaker 1 55:32
customer. You can if you make an account, it's like cheaper. I have to

Scott Benner 55:36
be honest with you. I'm just gonna buy it from Amazon this one time because I'm going to pay the same from them and it's going to come faster from Amazon. Okay, all right. So the first time the smaller No, I'm getting the 60 because the girl says I gotta take three the first

Speaker 1 55:50
day. Maybe just like take two because I started with one. All

Scott Benner 55:54
right. Yeah, I'm not gonna I'll follow that. Alright, hold on by now. Let's make sure it gets shipped to my house so somebody else doesn't like my kid doesn't like open their mail go to hell is this I have to be honest. I'm gonna use my podcast credit card because I feel like this is business playing that to my my a textile you like I was talking to girl on the podcast. I said I was gonna buy this. I feel like it's marketing. But why? Free one day delivery tomorrow? Oh, free delivery tomorrow. I already ordered something else. I bought underwear. So it's gonna ship with my underwear. That's good. I'll put them together. I don't want to waste the box. You know, they mean. You know, it took me a while to find the underwear I wanted to buy. I got three different kinds. So here's what happened. I was wearing this kind of underwear that I liked, and they stopped making it. So then I tried three different brands before I found the kind that I wanted to go with again. But now I'm sold on it. And so I bought eight pairs. It's pretty fancy. Do you have more than eight pairs of underwear? Yeah, yeah, you're a girl. You probably have like 1000 pairs of underwear. Right? Because they're colors and they're cute or whatever the hell I just need. Like, they're all mine are all black. They look exactly the same. I don't care what they look like. All right, I got my marching orders. Cocoa, June, organic eggs, grass fed butter, almond wrap, biome medic. And what am I going to find out after I take these $60 worth of pills? What what's gonna happen to me? You're gonna be like better? How am I going to know? I'm so good now. Oh, my good to know. Like, now I'm better. You'll

Speaker 1 57:32
just like you'll you'll start feeling it. Like how? Tell me how do you like? Do you walk? Like, take a walk outside or like, if I can help it.

Scott Benner 57:47
Like, I make this podcast for you people.

Speaker 1 57:50
You're gonna be more energetic in the podcast.

Scott Benner 57:53
I mean, is that possible? I'm pretty zippy already. And I mean, that might be like a bath. Yeah, right. People would be like, Yo, this girl came on the podcast and ruined the podcast, which gives got all this energy, and now he's irritating. I'm irritating now, but now more irritating. I'm gonna say, alright, I'm doing it. I'm doing what you say. Because you look healthier than I do.

Unknown Speaker 58:13
I think I think it'll benefit you. All right.

Scott Benner 58:16
I'm gonna try. You didn't know you've not mentioned that. I've lost a lot of weight since the last time you saw me. Have you noticed? Not really unbelievable. Are you serious?

Unknown Speaker 58:27
It's been like nine months? I don't remember. Like,

Scott Benner 58:30
I'm 35 pounds lighter than when you saw me last time. You didn't notice at all? No, what the hell am I losing weight for if nobody can tell? It was for my health. I did see a friend yesterday for lunch. Now I'm thinking what I ate was probably killing me. But I saw a friend yesterday for lunch who I hadn't seen in a long time. And when he saw me, he goes, Oh my God, you look like your little brother. Which he was just saying I looked smaller than the last time I saw him because he doesn't actually know my little brother. And I'm adopted. You have a brother? Yeah, but I don't look anything like him. Because I'm adopted. You don't I mean? Yeah. So. All right. Do we have fun? I did. Does it matter if I think it only matters if I have fun? Honestly, here, there's a good podcasting tip for you. I make a podcast that I'd want to listen to. That's all I do. I don't think about here's the secret for anybody listening. I don't think about what you want at all. So I don't put any effort into doing something that I think oh, people will like this. Like I do what I think I would like or what I think would help people. So like, you know, like even like the pro tip stuff. Have you listened that stuff? No. Unbelievable. How do you find this podcast? Your mom listen to it.

Arisha 59:47
Sometimes like my mom's like really busy because of work. That's

Scott Benner 59:50
why she's making soup. Takes a lot of time. Alright, so I'm just gonna make this change here. And then I have a big bag of frozen shrimp. You can make that on a saute that all up. And I'll eat that for dinner this week. And I'll pair it every day. Don't eat it. Not every day like often. And I have my eye on me to say, Can I say something very Caucasian to your My wife has a hydroponic garden where she grows lettuce. So nothing's ever been sprayed on it. Unless, unless Unless my dog walks by and farts on it. And so other than that, like nothing's ever been sprayed on it. And so I'll use that to make my to make salads with I'll mix that with greens with the shrimp. I tried having chicken wings this week. I know you don't eat meat, but I like I over salted it. I started like retaining water. Like suddenly I can't do that. It's very embarrassing. So I won't I won't do that. And Alright, that's it. Am I gonna not? And I'm gonna have to make my own sorbet. Should I not eat sugar?

Speaker 1 1:00:56
Do you eat sugar? White sugar, not white sugar.

Scott Benner 1:00:59
So usually I take like mangoes, you're really making me upset. So usually I take mangoes and I make my own sorbet with it, but you gotta use a little bit of sugar. Or

Speaker 1 1:01:08
you have to like, then use a date put a date and

Scott Benner 1:01:12
a date. That thing that almost killed Indiana Jones. Weathers. Do you know that reference? No, no, there's no way you know that reference. Indiana Jones is a movie with an actor named Harrison Ford. Do you know any of that? I know the movie Park. Okay. In the movie, they tried to poison Indiana Jones by poisoning his dates. But what happens? The monkey eats the dates first. And that's how Indiana knows not to eat them. What do you think of that? You'll never see that movie. So the best movies I've ever seen in my life. You'll never see it. What is your favorite movie? Titanic, though. Wait, the one word Caitlin's like kills that boy in the water?

Speaker 1 1:01:51
No, like they didn't fit on the like little bed

Scott Benner 1:01:55
the fit fine. I don't want to disagree thing. It was a giant headboard. And she's like, I'm fine. You stay there. You didn't say how many times? Have you seen it? Like four times? Well, it's never occurred to you that it looked like there was enough room for his skinny to climb up there.

Arisha 1:02:13
No, I watched the like thing. Like the MythBusters video thing. And then they talked to the guy who made the movie and he said that, like it was for the writing purpose that he had to die. Yeah,

Scott Benner 1:02:24
I knew we had to kill him. But we need to have a good reason. I don't fit on the thing she's voted on was not a good reason. And he's like, hung there is I guess okay. He froze like a like your bananas before you make ice cream. You freeze the bananas before you make the ice cream. Right? Yeah. And so. I don't know. Arden told me recently. She doesn't think Leo's attractive. Do you think he's cute or no? In that movie? He was young man. Not really. Yeah, right. Then interesting. What's your favorite actor?

Speaker 1 1:02:52
I don't really like I don't know. I like watch TV shows like

Scott Benner 1:02:56
what? Okay, what are you watching?

Speaker 1 1:02:57
Right now? I'm watching House. Oh, I love house. Really? Yeah, everyone's watching Grey's Anatomy. I just can't find it

Scott Benner 1:03:06
anywhere. So I just watched half Grey's Anatomy got dropped from Netflix. It's

Speaker 1 1:03:10
not on Netflix. No kidding. Is it on? Cuz I didn't find it.

Scott Benner 1:03:14
Let me test how long have you been watching House? Okay, how long have you been watching so I'm gonna test you.

Arisha 1:03:19
Like I'm on season. I just started Season Two. Okay, maybe

Scott Benner 1:03:23
I don't know if this is too early or not. But what's the thing? They always guess that it never is? Pneumonia. sarcoidosis. sarcoidosis is the answer. Okay. Seriously, and you know, one day I interviewed somebody and they're like, I had sarcoidosis. And I was like, oh my god, like on the house. And they were they knew the reference. It was crazy. As you're watching it, you will think of me every time somebody goes. It could be sarcoidosis. And then it never is. Never do you like the way he's mean to everybody.

Arisha 1:03:57
I don't know. He's he's kind of stupid in my opinion. Yeah. He's always like, he thinks he's better than everyone else. I mean, he kind of is but like, he really isn't at the same time. Like, yeah,

Scott Benner 1:04:08
I see your whole generations nice. I used to love him. I mean, he was everybody. Meet comfortable. They're gonna roll through a couple of like, other intern doctors as the years go on. Yeah. And then what's your name is on there. The woman who broke Ted lassos heart. What's her name? You know, the guy who's dead last so?

Unknown Speaker 1:04:27
No,

Scott Benner 1:04:29
do you didn't watch that last though?

Unknown Speaker 1:04:31
Like the actor? Yeah.

Scott Benner 1:04:33
What's his name? Jason Sudeikis. No, I don't know who that is. All right. Well, Jason is a Degas married a woman who I think then left him. Anyway, she's on her house. And when I think of her I only think of her as the lady that made Jason to Vegas. Sad, but I don't know. Like maybe it was him who made her sad. Or maybe it was just mutual. I have no idea. I don't look into it. I just liked petal So I wanted him to be happy. That's so stupid. I don't know anything about those people. Alright, so you've been watching House. It's not a bad poll, I would watch house. What did I just finish watching? Oh, Mayor of Kingstown, which I don't think you should watch. That's kind of aggressive.

Unknown Speaker 1:05:20
I watch a manifest that looks good. Well, was

Scott Benner 1:05:22
it manifest manifest? Oh, the one about the plane crash.

Arisha 1:05:27
The one that the plane like disappear for five and a half years?

Scott Benner 1:05:30
And did you ever watch the last? No. Interesting. That was one where a plane crashed on an island. And the island may or may not have had a magic mist monster on it. And a polar bear that never came back. And then there was a button and you had to push the button or something was gonna blow up. Oh, spoiler alert. And then nobody pushed a button and nothing bad happened. That's one of those shows. It's really good. Right up until the end. At the end. You're like, Wait, what the hell? Why have I been watching this? Like, that's your answer. Stop it. Not great at the end. Okay, what else should we talk about? And then we're gonna let you go because you had to go to school? Oh, I don't know. You don't know. Well, do you want to practice interview me? For a couple of minutes, then we'll see if I'm gonna come on your podcast.

Unknown Speaker 1:06:18
I don't know what to say, well,

Scott Benner 1:06:19
how the hell you're gonna make a podcast? You need to be able to talk if you're gonna make a podcast.

Speaker 1 1:06:22
I'll make like a script. No, I always make a skirt. Do you? Yeah. Do

Scott Benner 1:06:27
you read from it? Hmm, can I tell you secret? I've never once prepared to make this podcast.

Arisha 1:06:35
I write like, the introduction. And then like, all these points, then points, like under the points, because then I just forget what to talk about. And then I just go off topic. This is why you don't have any time for anything. Yeah. And then I just like start like, yeah, and then I start talking about like homework in school. Like, it's it's a good thing. I was really off topic.

Scott Benner 1:06:54
Yeah. And he just stay on topic, though. Yeah. All right. I mean, isn't that funny that I just said that, but I didn't do that at all. Alright, just you do whatever you want to do when you're making your podcast. So I I've prepared for the podcast in the past. But, you know, like when I'm making like, well, that's not sure I didn't prepare for that. Say the protests, I made a list of things I wanted to talk about. And then I would make them with Jenny and Jenny would come on. And I'd be like, Jane, let's talk about setting Temp Basal today. And she's like, Alright, and then we would just make an episode. That was my preparation for that. The the Omnipod five Pro Tip series, I actually did prepare significantly for, but that was because I made it along with the company. And they were you know, they were professional. And so I'm actually going to do more stuff with them. About Omnipod five pretty soon, but that's neither here nor there. But most of the time, I just sit down. I get everything set up. I also come whipping in this room, like five minutes before I'm supposed to record I don't even like I just come in, I sit down, I make sure I have a drink. And I'm like, Alright, good. Here we go. Actually, I rub a little bit of Vaseline on my lips. So my lips don't make noise. And then I do it. My pull up my calendar. While I'm logging on. I click on someone's name like tomorrow, I have an interview at noon with a guy named Michael. Tomorrow, I'll sit down until 1155. I'll rush around to get the file set up. I'll open this up, I'll scroll down where it says What's your relationship to diabetes? He's he has type one. And then what do you want to talk about ADHD, anxiety, depression, potential autism, they potential diagnosis of autism specifically in relation to diabetes and my care of it diabetes camp. And then I go, adult type one anxiety, depression, maybe autism, diabetes camp, and then I think I don't want to talk about diabetes camp. And then I close my calendar, and then I say out of the guy. That's it. That is how I prepped for the podcast. Yeah. Now you know, now you all know how to make a great podcast, or at least a pretty good. Okay, so now we get to interview me. I like it. Let's I'll help you set it up together. Ready? What what's the topic you'd be interested in asking me about? Really have one thing in common? Well, obviously like diabetes, but like podcasting, you want to ask a question about making a podcast, right? Oh, yeah. Right. And then why don't you start with that?

Speaker 1 1:09:28
So like, just be like, I don't know. I just felt like hard.

Scott Benner 1:09:32
This was gonna happen if I come on your podcast?

Speaker 1 1:09:34
No, have it already. Like, I need to, like at least write like a couple sentences.

Scott Benner 1:09:38
How long will it take you to make this? This these questions? The questions? Like half an hour, okay. Now, most people who come on your podcast are gonna say to you, what are you going to ask me? Here's what happens to me. They go, what are you gonna ask me when I come on? And I go, I have no idea. And they're like, I'm not comfortable with that. And I say, then this is probably not the right podcast for you. So, and then they go okay. And then, but if I was you, I do whatever your process is, right. But if I asked you for the questions in advance, say no, don't let me know the question. Why? Why am I saying that? Because then they're like, more prepared than you want me to be spontaneous? Yeah, you want me to you want me to say the first thing that comes to mind? Not something that I've prepared to make myself sound better. Right? Or you don't want me to say something canned? That I say all the time. So when you get a person in my position, I get asked the same question a lot. And so there is an answer I have, if I need to whip it out real quickly. But you don't want that you want me to just be surprised by what you say? And then just kind of disappear into my mind? And then tell you what it is that I think of your question, like, so don't don't let me know the questions ahead of time. Make sure your headphones are working again. Okay, and your microphone. And then you're gonna have to make some time to edit. And you don't have to go crazy editing, just, you know, if I like, bumped into the microphone like this, edit that out. That kind of stuff. I think I'm gonna have to say to rob, leave that in for a fact. And so I hired an editor recently, is a wonderful gentleman, his child has diabetes, and does a terrific job. But I ended the show for nine years on my own. And then one day, I was just like, I can't I think I'm gonna die. I can't do this anymore. So, so I was able, luckily, to hire an editor, which was nice. You're gonna need to make some money before you do that. All right. You got any sponsors?

Arisha 1:11:41
Not like at the moment? Yeah, only have like two episodes, two

Scott Benner 1:11:45
episodes, you're gonna need more episodes, you're gonna need more downloads. Downloads are how you get the sponsors. Okay.

Unknown Speaker 1:11:52
How many downloads? Do you have?

Scott Benner 1:11:53
Oh, see, right now can

Unknown Speaker 1:11:55
I guess? Can I get? Like? Yeah, what

Scott Benner 1:11:58
do you want? 1000 80,000? Do you think I have 80,000? Downloads? Let me pull up my downloads. I don't want

Unknown Speaker 1:12:04
like per episode, though.

Scott Benner 1:12:05
Not like, oh, per episode. See, the episodes are different. So I'm probably not going to tell you how many downloads my episodes get. Because now there's a reason I'm not but I will tell you some numbers. Okay, so the podcast has been online since 2015. It's nine years old. It has 14 and a half million total downloads. That's a lot. This year in 2023. I'm going to get about 6 million. I think I'm going to reach 6 million this year, just for this year. Last year, I had 4.5 million, so 10 and a half million in the last 24 months. And the other three and a half million it took me seven years to get the first year of the podcast like the entire first year 2015. I had, I don't know the exact number off the top my head, but it was like 26,000 downloads for the whole year. That's a lot. It sounds like a lot, doesn't it? I was very angry when I only had 26,000 downloads at the end of the first year. So and that I was disappointed, disappointed now, I guess back then I was happy. I was like it's working. And people I could see it grow every month. Right. But I was getting like 1300 a month or something like that. Yeah. And so about 25,000 for that year. Now, most days, I get 25,000. And so the weekends aren't as much. And there are some days that are less than others. It's interesting what people skip over. For instance, the after dark stuff, people are very people either love it or don't listen to it. The people who love the after darks love them. And then there are plenty of people like I don't want to hear people like carcere talked about their sex lives or stuff like that. So they stay away from those. If I do stuff for type two, it gets fewer downloads. If I hate to say this, if I do interviews with people who have accents, they don't do as well, that happens. And there's

Arisha 1:14:09
no like funding. I feel like it'd be so much fun doing with with someone who looks like an Australian or British. Oh,

Scott Benner 1:14:14
no, I think it's fantastic. I think some people's ears don't hear it right away and they give up. So they don't want to listen to people with accents. I find if you just listen for a few minutes, you get it like I interviewed a guy earlier this year, who's like British accent was very thick. And there were moments where I was just staring at the table just trying to follow what he was saying because he was talking quickly and I couldn't understand him and then like 10 minutes into it, I could just hear him. It felt like it felt like you know in a movie, where they want you to know that the actors are speaking another language. So for the first couple of minutes, they speak in their native language with subtitles, then all of a sudden the subtitles go away and you hear them in English. Yeah, that's what it felt like when I interviewed him when I do things that are good for people. They don't get downloaded as much. So that's interesting too, when you when you put up content that would be very helpful for someone, not everybody listens. The management stuff is very popular. But mostly people just like to hear interviews with people. People loved your your last interview. Actual Yeah, I got a lot of good feedback about yours actually, the most popular episodes of the podcast are the ones with my daughter, because she barely ever comes on and she's a sarcastic person. So I think people like that. I did a myth episode series this year, that was pretty popular. I remastered the pro tips this year that was popular. And then people just I think, just in general, like the conversations, I But lately, I've been doing a small episode like series with people who have used glucagon to tell their story about why they needed glucagon and what happened when they use it? That's been good. I've gotten a lot of good feedback about that. That's about it, though. So here's the Here are the numbers you need right? To sell an ad, your episode has to get at least 5000 downloads in the first 30 days. Okay. But you, you can only charge something they call a CPM. Podcast CPM. So I'll explain that to you. It's a certain amount of money per 1000. And what is the current CPM right now? I'm going to be honest with you, I charge more money than this. So but this is what most people get for podcasts, a 62nd add on an episode that gets between 1010 1000 downloads on that episode. About $23 per 1000. Oh, no, that's $23. For that for for 1000. To 10,000. Yeah, per 1000. So you could probably make a couple 100 bucks for 10,000 downloads. On most podcasts, I, I charge more than that, that my pocket is is very niche. So it's hard to find people like when you're trying to market to people, you know, it's hard to find people who have diabetes, right? Yeah. So like, let's make a big example. Like, let's say, you know, who Joe Rogan is? No, okay. He's got like, the biggest podcast in the world. Like the biggest one, I don't know what it costs to buy an ad on his podcast, it's probably, I'm guessing $50,000 for a 62nd ad. Like, I'm guessing I have no idea, right? It could be more than that even. But you'll reach millions and millions of people, but you're not going to reach with me. But only 10% of those people are going to have type one diabetes. Right? So if it cost you 50 grand to reach a million people, and only 10% of those people have type one. How many of you reached Not that many, not that many, and you've paid a lot of money for it. I don't charge that much money, obviously. And but everyone you reach with me has type one or love somebody with type one. So it's a good place for people to advertise who have that now I did just meet a new company that I'm very interested in working with. They're making a zero glycemic soda. So like no glycemic impact soda, and they want to advertise on the show. I've just asked them to send me samples. And I'm going to try them and see what I think. And if I like them, then we might start working together. So it took a while to get to that point. You could just do it for fun, too. Yeah. Might be might be better that way. Also, having a successful podcast is incredibly unlikely. So only 86% of all active podcasts, get 130 downloads per episode, or fewer, under 30, or 35. That's 86% of active podcasts only get 136 in episode. So, you know in perspective, I put up an episode this morning, it'll do 3000 downloads in the first 24 hours. And then it will go from 3000 to 5000. Pretty quickly. It will reach probably seven to 9000 in the first 45 days. And then from there, it will never stop growing. And two years from now that episode will have probably 25 or 30,000 downloads on it. And yeah, and that's for every one that I put up. Some of them have much more I have episodes that have 60,000 downloads for one episode. And it's funny because I think people count I think think people think about like YouTube or or tick tock or they're like that's not a lot like I saw a tick tock video with like 800,000 It's not the same thing because you're not interacting with people the same way a tick tock is just you swiping by somebody. It's not you really building any kind of a relationship or even spending time really absorbing information, like do you know I mean, like you have tick tock, you don't do know, you don't look like a kid who is tick tock. So do you have Instagram? Oh, okay. So think back to days. What did you see on Instagram two days ago?

Unknown Speaker 1:20:24
Like my friends hope, okay.

Scott Benner 1:20:25
Okay. That's the extent of what you remember. Right? Yeah. So it's not a great marketing tool. And marketers are figuring that out as time goes forward, that PR companies in the very beginning we're very excited about like, oh, there's an Instagram influencer. And their picture gets like, so many likes and stuff like that. But it really, it's meaningless. So I don't even really focus on my social media very much because I want people to listen to the podcast. I don't care if they like a picture or something like that. That makes sense. Yeah. All right. I say you make your list. No pressure. When you're ready to interview me, let me know and you can interview me for your podcast. Okay. All right. Yeah. All right, Jeff. A good time. Yeah. All right. Go to school and learn something, don't you? Alright, so the next time you come back, I'm gonna have answers about all of this. So don't don't try to interview me for at least 30 days because I'm going to take the pills. Okay. All right. What if my poop starts to smell? That'd be terrible. How does your poop smell?

Unknown Speaker 1:21:27
I don't know. Like nothing.

Scott Benner 1:21:30
Are you sure? Yeah. All right. You fart a lot or No? Not really. Because you eat nice. You never had diarrhea like the lady in the review? No,

Unknown Speaker 1:21:41
only like no, I don't think so.

Scott Benner 1:21:45
Definitely don't tell people if you've had diarrhea, okay. Just it's not a good luck. All right, say goodbye. Bye.

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